:::This thread is about outing people.
Yes, it is. As such, the point is relevant. Outing people is wrong, whether someone does it TO another poster, or FORCES the poster to do it to themselves as a defense against irrational paranoia.
i just found out that a dear friend of mine was outed by a poster on this board!!!
i am soooooo angry and disgusted it's hard to contain at the moment!
so to all those out there that are trying to fade and get other family members out, don't let anyone know who you are!!!
:::This thread is about outing people.
Yes, it is. As such, the point is relevant. Outing people is wrong, whether someone does it TO another poster, or FORCES the poster to do it to themselves as a defense against irrational paranoia.
i just found out that a dear friend of mine was outed by a poster on this board!!!
i am soooooo angry and disgusted it's hard to contain at the moment!
so to all those out there that are trying to fade and get other family members out, don't let anyone know who you are!!!
Even sadder is when ignorant people pile onto newbie posters with NO proof whatsoever, just a "gut feeling" based on nothing, and claim that an apology will be forthcoming when the newbie proves (outs) themselves. Pretty disgusting.
It is dead wrong to out someone on this forum who needs or wants to maintain anonymity for any reason and is not causing real-time damage to other posters. It is EQUALLY WRONG to try and FORCE some poster about whom you have UNFOUNDED SUSPICIONS to expose themselves here so that you can satisfy yourself that they are "verified" and "real." That is what makes it hypocritical.
i just found out that a dear friend of mine was outed by a poster on this board!!!
i am soooooo angry and disgusted it's hard to contain at the moment!
so to all those out there that are trying to fade and get other family members out, don't let anyone know who you are!!!
Whoops, sorry, I stand corrected. You didn't demand she out herself. You only suggested she was a liar and a fraud. My bad. Apologies.
i just found out that a dear friend of mine was outed by a poster on this board!!!
i am soooooo angry and disgusted it's hard to contain at the moment!
so to all those out there that are trying to fade and get other family members out, don't let anyone know who you are!!!
Weren't you just DEMANDING a day or two ago, that a new poster OUT herself or else she must be a troll? Hypocrite.
are you the type of person that believes everything a person says?.
typically, my radar goes up, especially if a person either brags about all his or her accomplishments or tells you a sob story about how awful their life is.. i was reading here today about how some posters have been upset with others for either feeling someone is fraudulent or is uncaring or caring too much.. the funny thing is that most of us never really know who or what a person/poster is all about.
they could be perfectly upfront and tell you everything in a most truthful way or they could be conning you.
Tula, are you aware of the definition of "hypothetical?" or are you going to try to continue your witchhunt here too?
hello my friends.
just wanted to share with you some of these main points in the chapter called " unlocking cult mind control" in steve hassan's book " combatting cult mind control" as i'm getting to the part in the book of putting into action how to help people , witnesses or any other mind controlled member of a cult to get out and escape to gain their freedom of thought back again.
so thought you might like it !
Thanks for the Cliff's Notes Mr Flipper. I just want to add that my husband used Hassan's information to get me out of the WT. It did not feel like an intervention. In fact it was subtle enough so it felt quite like I discovered things all on my own. :) He started in on a Saturday when we were out at the farmer's market, having a casual conversation, and by the following Thursday night I had a copy of Crisis of Conscience in my hot little soon-to-be-apostate hands. LMAO!
You know what? Do it. If she says yes, you'll never trust her, I suppose that will be payback enough, hehe.
... or in a year or two when the next "hero" comes along and she dumps HIM because she found a new one.
Ah, so you're hoping to "save" her from some sort of imagined situation where she is engaged to a guy she doesn't love. Right. That's not delusional.
Would you want a woman who would be so disloyal as to dump her fiance and go be with you, the minute you tell her how you feel?