It continues to amaze me that despite the overwhelming amount of experiences from this site and other sites, people continue to think that indoctrinated individuals are 100% responsible for their decisions. I would not go to the other extreme and consider they have zero responsibility but c'mon, lets not forget the amount of BS people swallow weekly at meetings. The conditioning and constant fear mongering.
I even know individuals who have quit meetings and somewhat faded for no apparent reasons, yet the cling to the blood doctrine even when it means risking leaving young children behind to fend for themselves. You are going to tell me these parents are evil and are choosing to kill themselves without regard for their children? If the answer is no, then what is different in the case of his wife? What we need to remember in this fight is that half of the answers we get from our loved ones sound like they come from a WT magazine. As long as they sounds like so, then chances are they are not truly expressing themselves.
My wife had said things to me in the past that honestly are hard to swallow. I would have preferred she would have said she was with another man, honestly. At least I could have blamed it on myself for not paying enough attention to her.