How do you feel about promiscuous sex?

by free2beme 93 Replies latest jw friends

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  desbah

  hey TS

  this dude brags about sex with all these women...it makes me wonder he's only having sex to feel good about himself, nothing more selfish than cheap sex.

  ~desbah~
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  tetrapod.sapien

  desbah,

  and when has sex ever been expensive except in stiff upper-lip, puritanical societies? umm, no thank you.

  TS (of the anti-expensive sex class)
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  chrissy

  :"... they admit to sleeping with him on a regular basis. They are like his sex partners when ever he wants them, younger woman to woman in their 30's and even early 40's.":
  
  ...and you are saying this character goes around and points and is like, see her? yeah, she's one of my ho's!? haha. im not sure if im buying his story. i dont know many women who are collectively into sharing the same man like this, especially in a confined work environment. but whatever. right or wrong, truth or lie...unless you work in a carnival or are a bunch of voyeurs, lol, i doubt it.
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  kiddotan

  He's bragging about it? Real men who are good at this stuff don't need to brag. Do these woman really go back for seconds?

  He must be bloody fantastic...

  A lot of people, mostly men, but even some women view women as objects. That is what I have a problem with.

  I agree, I live in a mining town, 3 men to 1 women. Get the picture...

  Love, adoration, admiration, lust, magic and fun all rolled into one: to me that is superior and the optimum. Take the love out of it and it's just not the same.

  This is the best, and the best way to get the best. Wouldn't trade my man for any of the offers we girls in this town get.

  but for god-sakes, can they at least stop treating their bodies like a pleasure toy.

  no! why should people slap themselves for having fun? what is so sacred about our bodies? if ones body is a pleasure toy, i'd say they are a highly evolved human who is getting it right.

  Our bodies are a pleasure toy, we laugh, that sure as hell feels good. We share hugs, again, feels great. Sex is only part of the pleasure toy that is our body. Have you had a massage? (NON-SEXUAL), feels great.

  I'm not into the one-night stand scene, not me. But don't attack anyone for doing what they like doing, as long as they look after themselves and are safe.

  Tan
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  FlyingHighNow

  I agree, I live in a mining town, 3 men to 1 women. Get the picture...

  Now I know that has to get annoying, but on the other hand, it has to be amusing as well. You can just sit back and watch them make donkeys out of themselves, trying to get some feminine attention. On the other hand, it might be great for gay men.
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  desbah

  Love, adoration, admiration, lust, magic and fun all rolled into one: to me that is superior and the optimum. Take the love out of it and it's just not the same.

  I agree with this statment flying has it right.
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  misspeaches

  It depends on the person, time and circumstances.

  Before I met my boyfriend I'll admit that I had a few f***buddies on the go. There was no deep feelings there but we enjoyed ourselves and no one was hurt. I certainly do not consider that I was being promiscious at all and would resent if anyone suggested that I was. The guys knew about each other and no one cared. It was just all very non commital.

  I don't condone unsafe sex, or people who have sex with others and boast about it like a trophy or something like that....
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  kiddotan

  FlyingHigh - good for the ego, good for a laugh, poor wee fellas. Wanna find a fella, come to this town. I found mine in the city, or though his JW family are all from here. The pickings for the guys who wanna pick up a guy is pretty slim. Alot of rednecks here abouts or aleast they think they are REAL men.

  Before I met my boyfriend I'll admit that I had a few f***buddies on the go.

  This isn't promiscious, this is having an agreement between mates.
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  misspeaches

  Kiddotan where abouts are you? PM me if you wanna chat..... Its just that you have me intrigued. I don't mind telling you my whereabouts if you do want to PM...

  That's hilarious - good for the ego, good for a laugh, poor wee fellas... Nice one and so true!
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  defd

  
  Of course being as Servant of Jehovah I do not condone sex outside the marraige arrangement. However I do admit it is not always easy to turn down offers. Satan has used that trap for thousands of yrs. I agree with a statement made here about it..............premiscuous sex can lead to UNSAFE sex and that can cost you your life, in both senses of the word.....Oh you lovers of Jehovah, hate what is bad!

  D.