How do you feel about promiscuous sex? (page 5)

sass_my_frass

I'm a bit live and let live these days. I'd want any young person wanting to go exploring to be sure they're fully trained on safety and would hope that they have people they can trust to talk about the feelings it brings up... but as far as I'm concerned as long as nobody is getting hurt it isn't any of my business. Not my style for sure, sex is very precious to me, but I'm pretty weird.

avishai

I see these woman he sleep with as pathetic, and look at them like tools on the wall of his garage and almost find myself forgetting their human

Hmm, ya might want to work on that. Seriously. It's like homophobia. What people wanna do in bed is their own goddamn business as long as no one gets hurt. That being said, someone at an old job of mine, has a family, etc., is putting them in jeopardy by having an affair, his second at least, and being OBVIOUS about it. Ass. So, don't go out and hump around if it's gonna hurt people, otherwise, have fun.

premiscuous sex can lead to UNSAFE sex and that can cost you your life, in both senses of the word

Uhh, buddy? UNSAFE sex leads to unsafe sex, not promiscuity. And with all the hullabaloo about sex being lethal for the first time in history, I get pretty mad. Because......THERE HAS ONLY BEEN ABOUT 40 YRS. IN HISTORY WHERE SEX (maybe) WAS'NT LETHAL!!

And only then to people with access to antibiotics. See, syphilis and gonnorhea used to be lethal. People seem to have forgotten about that. Sooo, the JW rhetoric is silly. Like Lot was a nice guy, for instance. God found him the only one holy in his whole city. Did'nt stop him from humping his daughters, now did it? Take your crazy, mixed up, backwards bible inspired nonsense elsewhere. It pretty much comes down to taking care of kids if you make 'em, and then teaching them to not have kids too soon, and mess up, because life is sexually transmitted.

FHN, you always make me blush. I see people, and minds. And endless variation of body types. I just dig people. When one is fun, nice, intelligent, etc., that's what counts. Western standards of beauty are far too limiting. If i subscribed to them, i woulda gotten bored a long time ago. And I don't like being bored, it leads to silly things like moderation. I like to take big bites outta life, moderation is for monks.

trevor

In the tiny UK alone, three thousand people die every year in car accidents and many more are maimed and injured. I do not have the figures for the USA. Many of the journeys taken are not essential but are taken are for pleasure. Anyone who get in a car or on an airplane accepts the risks. In addition, these vehicles pollute the air and encourage asthma.

Driving is a dangerous, risky and antisocial activity but people take the precautions they can and carry on regardless. This is human nature. We do no avoid things that enrich our lives and bring us pleasure even when they involve great risk. Some people will say that sex involves risk to other peoples bodies. So do car accidents and without the consent of the injured party. Why should peoples assessment of the morality and risk involved with sex be examined from a higher moral perspective?

In short, I don’t see how any one who drives a car or uses airplanes has a moral right to criticise those who enjoy a full sex life, on the grounds that they put themselves and others at risk.

trevor

greendawn

Humans need the physical and emotional energies of the opposite sex to function properly but this sleeping around so much is some form of deviance or immaturity. Human nature is not made for it.

Golf

promiscuously. (pun intended)

Golf

Crumpet

Well I had two girls and one boy last night and I grew my own willy too.

Sadly the only promiscuous sex I get is in my dreams - but I seem to get it most nights and its just like the real thing!

LittleToe

LOL @ Crumpet!

Crumpet

Am I suffering from penis envy do you think?

And LT what are your thoughts and habits regarding promiscuity ?

LittleToe

Avishai Writes: I like to take big bites outta life, moderation is for monks.

Crumpet Writes: And LT what are your thoughts and habits regarding promiscuity ?

I'm starting to see a theme

As we discussed one night in the Summer, I'm very much of the perspective "what goes on in the bedroom is the individuals' business". However I do draw a moral line with the idea of interfering with marriages and partnerships, which is anathema to me. Why do people do that, do you suppose? The added danger?

Crumpet

However I do draw a moral line with the idea of interfering with marriages and partnerships, which is anathema to me. Why do people do that, do you suppose? The added danger?

Hmm I agree with you, but not everyone has the same moral stance. I know so many people who do not balk at affairs with "taken" people. They just say if the person is up for it then they are.

Maybe it is for spice or because of boredom. Or sometimes it is a way, not a good way, but a way to attract the attention of a neglectful, inattentive or complacent partner whom you still love and all else has failed.

And sometimes we just make mistakes - like me - and are very sorry for them afterwards and do our best to mitigate the damage.

crumpet

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