How do you feel about promiscuous sex?

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  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    A lot of women who sleep with lots of partners are looking for someone to fall in love with them, especially young women.

  • kiddotan
    kiddotan
    A lot of women who sleep with lots of partners are looking for someone to fall in love with them, especially young women.

    and they don't know how else to get that mans attention

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    I found a new word. I thought it fit right in here.

    satyriasis
    SYLLABICATION:sa·ty·ri·a·sis
    PRONUNCIATION: alt st-r-ss, st-
    NOUN:Excessive, often uncontrollable sexual desire in and behavior by a man.
    ETYMOLOGY:Late Latin satyrisis, from Greek saturisis, from saturos, satyr.

    It's supposed to be the equivalent of nymphomania for females.

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    ...and another thought. Satyriasis and nymphomania are both associated with narcissism (sp?). So, actually, it would appear that these people think very highly of themselves, and not the other way around. It seems that they love sex and they are not going to deny themselves the pleasure just to meet society's expectation of what is right or wrong.

    Then there are females and males out there who just like to conquer. The ones that strut around like cocks (no pun intended) while thinking to themselves "Yeah, I had some of that".

  • tetrapod.sapien
    tetrapod.sapien
    and they don't know how else to get that mans attention

    well, actually, i am sorry to say that it is one of the best ways to get a man's attention, lol. for me, the personality has to be confident, but sex is important, almost as important.

    ts

  • tetrapod.sapien
    tetrapod.sapien
    What if you find it has a pretty bow and ribbon on the outside and the inside is full a cockroaches

    gumby,

    i popped a ribbon once. LOL

    TS

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow
    A lot of women who sleep with lots of partners are looking for someone to fall in love with them, especially young women.
    and they don't know how else to get that mans attention

    I agree. They want love. They confuse sexual attention and interest with love. Most girls and women wise up after they find the guys don't usually call them back.

    While I agree that there are women who seem to be nymphos, most women are more interested in finding someone who will love and appreciate them for the unique individuals they are. I work with a lot of college girls. They seem wild, to hear them talk, but if you keep listening, you realize that they are upset that "guys are such jerks and they never call you back if you give it up too easily and yadda, yadda & why can't boys ever be faithful & how they'd like to kick some girl's butt for coming onto the guy they like, etc. etc."

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    Some women just think they have the "magic stuff" that will make the man fall for them. Unfortunately, the man still has more different "magic stuff' to sample. No sense in closing the gate after the horse is gone. So, they keep trying.

  • katiekitten
    katiekitten

    Its a good question.

    Part of me is repulsed by a man like this who uses women and brags about it.

    Another part of me remembers when I used to sleep with lots of different men whenever I felt like it (ahhh happy days).

    Another part of me thinks he is using them and they are also using him, and as long as they all realise no-one is being faithful or hoping for faithfulness (and using protection) then good luck to them.

    I think the potential problems are these:

    catching something - and this is a BIG worry, cos once one of them has something they will all have it, unless they are all being scrupulously careful (and even then..)

    someone not realising that they are only one of many partners - deceit is horrendounsly cruel

    someone realising they are one of many, but really being emotionally attached so that the whole situation is making them miserable.

    Ive been the deceiver and deceived in all 3 situations, and ive come to the conclusion that after having my fun its time to settle down and be loyal and faithful to one person.

  • ocsrf
    ocsrf
    I think the potential problems are these:

    catching something - and this is a BIG worry, cos once one of them has something they will all have it, unless they are all being scrupulously careful (and even then..)

    someone not realising that they are only one of many partners - deceit is horrendounsly cruel

    someone realising they are one of many, but really being emotionally attached so that the whole situation is making them miserable.

    Ive been the deceiver and deceived in all 3 situations, and ive come to the conclusion that after having my fun its time to settle down and be loyal and faithful to one person.

    Very True,

    Those who say it is OK so long as no one gets hurt who should care. The problem is, who determines that, who decides the other person should not fall in love and should not care that I am only there to relieve my sexual urge.

    Not much has been said about unwanted pregnancy, doesn't the newly concevied child deserve to have two loving parents who want him to be born.

    The idea of no one getting hurt is a fantasy, regardless of how you worship or not worship.

    OC

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