ummm...what is H2O? I thought it was another member. Was it another board? Just curious.
A little note about hidden microphones, etc. In some states you have to be careful because taping audio without the person's consent is illegal. I know in NH it is. So, if any does decide to do that, you may want to check out the laws in your state. I am not saying don't do it, just make sure if you do decide to tape audio you do so with eyes wide open as to what the consequences may be. Just a thought.
As far as You Know's comments about Exodus being an apostate elder. I really did not get the idea that he was spreading apostate ideas. As for stepping down right away, I got the impression that he was searching as earnestly as he could to prove his religion correct. If he had stepped down earlier when he was not so sure, he may have actually ended up stumbling others at that time. From the elders I have known that have stepped down (they were for personal reasons, nothing to do with faith...ie., one had a new baby and a new job and could not balance everything any longer, one had sever illness, etc.) the other elders try to do everything they can to get the brother to stay an elder. This is not always a bad thing...but it can be hard for a brother to step down.
You Know did have a point when he (I am assuming You Know is a he) said that you should not be surprised that you were rebuked. But, it always does, doesn't it, when it happens to us.
Anyway, do not let this experience make you too bitter. That does not do anyone any good. It will be a long time for you to recover from this experience, but I personally would be careful of taking things public so soon. Remember that you want people to listen to the facts, and not just accuse you of holding a grudge.
Good luck to you....and keep us updated on your situation!