Elise,
I don't understand what right you have to determine someone else's life for them, or on what basis they SHOULD make which choices. Your harsh criticism of stillajwexelder is completely unwarranted. You have no idea WHY he is still a Witness yet you are willing to leap to the conclusion that he SHOULD be more like you.
Basically, you are acting like a JW in a different wrapper.
AuldSoul