I believe there is an asswer that will allow all three of us to be happy. I will not give up until I find it. I cannot be happy if they are not. So why strive to please myself, and my desires? I have to find the solution to the problem. (that is a period)
Every problem has a solution, some are just harder to find than others.
I just rely on the hope of having alot of friends help me in the quest for the answer.