Do I dare comment. Though you say you are not angry... you sure do sound angry to me. At the very least fustrated.
Freedom, is really the basic source of all evil, and yet, it is the most treasured value of God and man.
Since God created everything, and said it is very good, even Satan was made good. God created no creatures that were evil. If God had made Satan evil then God would be the one responsible for the evil in the universe, but God made everything good.
How then could evil get started in a good universe where all creatures and all things were good? It came in by way of God's greatest gift to His creatures. It was the gift of freedom.
God could have prevented evil very simply by withholding the gift of freedom. God had the choice of making a world where no evil could exist, but He didn't do it. We would have been nothing more than the computerized Matrix world.
It means everything to God to have free willed beings to relate to. We are not machines, but real persons who are able to fellowship with Him. Love and obedience is priceless, because they are freely given, and not the automatic response due to programing.
God knew that free choice would bring evil in the picture. For freedom to be real there must be allowance for choice. There is no way to have freedom and avoid the possibility of evil. Satan was made with the same freedom to chose good or evil. What is evil? Since God is the creator of all, and God is good, evil is any use of freedom which is contrary to God's will, and what He would have His creatures choose. When any free willed being chooses to do what God would not have programed them to do, had He made them robots, that is evil. He knew this would happen and that is why he put His plan of redemption thru Jesus into place before the foundings of the earth.
Can I ask why people believing in the grace of God by accepting Jesus gets you so upset? Curious.
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