Dragon,
Who was talking about destroying people? Lose the ":bitch"? No, I don't get you. If anyone gets you, I would be surprised.
Perhaps you have confused comments directed toward the organization as personal comments about your mother, or my mother, and father, and sisters, and aunts and uncles, heck, almost all of my extended family descended from four and five generations back.
I hate (as in loathe, despise, abhor, detest, etc.) the organization to which my family belongs. I don't want my family destroyed. If your comments were directed toward a particular poster you lost the effect entirely when you failed to address your post to that person.
In reply to your strange request for someone (anyone) to buck up to you in order to destroy your mother, from one person in therapy to another who probably should be, perhaps your meds could use some adjustments.
For my part, I am not nodding as the organization destroys itself. I am actively busying myself with life (when possible) and as a sideline I am preparing to help what I expect will be a lot of people who are destined for a very rough landing. They will need practical things, like assistance reintegrating into "the world" that they have dreaded for so long.