The love of your life "cheats" on you....could you forgive? (page 4)

mouthy

I live in Canada .... But all you yanks are too far away. All kidding aside I have MANY friends I could go to. I am applying for subsidized housing on Monday we will see how it goes ((((HUGS that your concerned..) Yes I know I am bad. But I am ME!!! now I used to be so theocratic. it HURT!!! Now I am human..... what you see is what you get.

LittleToe

..... what you see is what you get.

And as a sidebar to Sir Tom Jones: If you see it, you'll get it - all of it!!!

juni

And if I remember, Tom Jones is Grace's idol!! Right Grace?

Juni

stillajwexelder

It happened to me , I was devastated. Still not truly over it many years later. We are still together. The wound is still there but it is not an open wound

mouthy

And as a sidebar to Sir Tom Jones: If you see it, you'll get it - all of it!!!Oh the thought of it heated me up LT thanks

collegegirl21

For some of you who did forgive (like me) do you ever find that when you fight you tend to bring it up and throw it in their face? Sometimes when I get mad that's what I do and I know its wrong, but I am still so hurt by it.

mouthy

Thats a human weakness I think, better to throw it into the "lake of forgiveness" & post the sign to yourself "NO FISHING" I believe God does that with us.BUT!!! you wont ever forget -because that is a weakness. Try to put it at the back of your mind HUN!!!

Sparkplug

Now I am human..... what you see is what you get.

And that is what I LOVE to hear!

RAF

... MOUTHY !!!

StillaJW : It happened to me , I was devastated. Still not truly over it many years later. We are still together. The wound is still there but it is not an open wound

It's just human ... at least you know it's wrong ... means that when you'r strong enough you can figth against it (you can't when you'r not)
it's cool that you are able to forgive it means that you are working on it (good for you, good for her) Everything takes time even forgiveness.
Eddited to add : Sorry this comment was related to this

For some of you who did forgive (like me) do you ever find that when you fight you tend to bring it up and throw it in their face? Sometimes when I get mad that's what I do and I know its wrong, but I am still so hurt by it.

free2beme

I would not be angry, but I would ask them to leave and move on.

The love of your life "cheats" on you....could you forgive?

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