MrsMcD - you are very active on this thread pointing out the negative portrayals of blacks, by whites over the years, and rightly pointing out the hurt it's caused.
But I can't get over what a repugnant thing you did in calling another person, who is black, a "house" n-word. That is as insulting, demeaning and repugnant a thing to call someone as I've heard. And you do it on a thread condemning a public figure for saying "nappy haired hoes" - also repugnant.
Here is what that poster said:
In my neck of the woods, the news is only talking about Imus' comment about the ladies' basketball team, so if he said more offensive things I cannot speak my opinion on them.
Someone, I forget, said that no one can make you feel inferior without your permission. If blacks use the same/similar or worse references to black women or other blacks as Imus did in videos, music, comedies or in conversation among themselves, or whatever, I think essentially, they are allowing people of other races to do the same.
If I don't beat the snot out of you for calling me the 'b'-word, but instead giggle at it, think it's cool or permit it in some fashion, someone who overhears you may think that it is okay to come along and call me that too.
It is a double-standard. Plain and simple. I don't buy the excuse that blacks put a positive spin on the 'n'-word because they are using it to mean "friend", "pal", or "confidant" when talking to each other. If white folks or anybody else can't refer to a black person by that word or any other negative references, neither should blacks to each other. Some blacks should examine themselves; I've been witness (eww, did I use that word?) to blacks being prejudiced to other blacks from different countries, so many are not as united on racial issues as some would like to make it appear.
And, yes, fire everyone who has done what Imus did, if that's possible. White, black, red, yellow, purple.
....By the way, I'm black.
What an awful thing for a black person to say in your opinion I guess?. WOW she should be put in her place for that right?! So you said:
....By the way, I'm black.
I could tell. You sound like one of them "house" kinds. Now, that's used in a bad way!
What a disgusting thing to say MrsMcD - calling someone that. What makes you ANY different than Imus or the writers of those cartoons you've been posting? The posting guidelines say this:
- Insulting, threatening or provoking language
- Inciting hatred on the basis of race, religion, gender, nationality or sexuality or other personal characteristic.
- Swearing, using hate-speech or making obscene or vulgar comments.
If you disagreed with what Rethinking said you could have made an argument, posted your view, challenged hers. But you chose to just attack her with hate-speech based on her race. Then did nothing but defend it and then mock her further.
gotcha Rethinking - Welcome to the board! (and note I didn't assume in my posts you were male or female )
That's so sweet their bonding! Survival instinct! You go girl!
For you to take her post and attack her with those words and labels shows just how disturbed you are. Absolutely no different than what Michael Richards did in my opinion and hiding behind your skin color doesn't excuse it - just as hiding behind "it's just a joke" doesn't.