First Date Etiquette

by Crumpet 52 Replies latest jw experiences

  • bernadette
    bernadette

    wow crumpet, what an amazing date in such lovely surroundings - sounds magical - understand why you want to take some time to recover.

  • flipper
    flipper

    Hi, Crumpet! I'm glad your date turned out so nice. I was a little"trollied" myself when I went onto eharmony - my friend was here telling me about it, I'd never done anything online. I had a good old time answering their 10 million questions blatantly honestly, thinking oh, yeah, let's see who goes for this. Hence my most excellent husband. We've been together since the day we met - it can happen. I hadn't dated for years because it's wierd and I was burnt out on it. Good luck! I know you can do it.....flipper

  • Crumpet
    Crumpet

    Flipper that is such a lovely story! Congratulations!

    free2think and cyber - bad children! I didnt want you to comment on bisexuality or dating - but the religious experience. ie describe my non saintly qualities so that I can convince this lady that I am not special and not some sort of feminine deity! LOL!

    Thanks Bernadette - it was such a beautiful place. Definitely worth a visit people!

    all genders, ages, races, and cultures.
    Please tell me you haven't explored the Male / 19 / White / Body Modification culture yet, have you

    Richie - are you 19 now? Yay! No I have not explored that culture nearly enough - however I did talk about you on the date. We were walking past this awesome huge palace and I was talking about how inspiring you had been for me and also about your suicide suspension.

  • Crumpet
    Crumpet

    The first pic is the exact view from where we had the picnic and the second is the palace itself.

    http://www.blenheimpalace.com/palacepg/thepalac.htm

  • MariAruet
    MariAruet

    go for it, I would!

  • free2think
    free2think
    free2think and cyber - bad children! I didnt want you to comment on bisexuality or dating - but the religious experience. ie describe my non saintly qualities so that I can convince this lady that I am not special and not some sort of feminine deity! LOL!

    But you don't have any bad qualities Crumpet lol.

  • cyberdyne systems 101
    cyberdyne systems 101
    free2think and cyber - bad children! I didnt want you to comment on bisexuality or dating - but the religious experience. ie describe my non saintly qualities so that I can convince this lady that I am not special and not some sort of feminine deity! LOL!
    But you don't have any bad qualities Crumpet lol.

    I second that

    CS 101

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    What a wonderful experience!

    I'm strongly of the opinon that Divine influences (label them what you may) bring us into contact with people whom we can help and can help us. It may be only a "moment" or a couple of words, but our lives are touched and some kind of net benefit to the universe is accrued. I've seen it so many times that I consistently listen to that "inner voice of intuition" (no, not a literal "voice") and go with that tangible "flow".

    Even if you never meet this lassie again, you have both been blessed with a special "moment" in time that has been invaluable to you both. Live for and in such moments, as they are far more fulfilling that an orgasm or two.

    A word of caution - it can be intoxicating. Don't permit your ego to raise its head if you get more and more of these kind of experiences. Keeping your feet on the ground is essential. The alternative is becoming so heavenly minded that you become of no earthly use! Else you become a cult-leader and eventually find yourself on the wrong end of a gun.

  • Crumpet
    Crumpet
    Else you become a cult-leader and eventually find yourself on the wrong end of a gun.

    Glad you got there safe LT! Your text announcing your departure arrived during my date.

    So you dont think I should get some Guru Gear just yet then? I love your advice - its exactly the advice I would give myself.

  • SixofNine
    SixofNine

    Don't permit your ego to raise its head if you get more and more of these kind of experiences.

    Because you will (get more and more of these kind of experiences) if you nurture it, as that is the nature of feedback loops. Before you know it you're selling crystals and telling people to "just be still"*.

    *not a reference to having too damn many kids and running a meth-lab

    See ya soon ;) !!

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