For people who are still religious, what are your views on gays?
Here's the progression of thinking I've gone through in the past few years. Being involved in this board has made me much more compassionate for what gays go through, because I now understand how horrible it is to be excluded from the main community, to be shunned. I now understand the gay battles to be accepted in regular society; to be allowed to marry, separate, or lose a partner in death. To accept their joys and their griefs as significant as my own.
First of all, I admitted that being gay is an internal condition, not an act. I first tried to reconcile the scriptures by suggesting that gays may be gay-ish, but abstain from the act. But that goes against the principle of inclusiveness (Romans 10:12) that I mentioned above.
I then imagined what I would do if a gay person was beaten up on the side of the road. Of course, my love compels me to embrace him and bind up his wounds. Yes, even gays are my neighbours. (Luke 10:29-37)
I also did some reading on Roman culture, and it seems that all Roman men could indulge in sex with anyone subsurvient to him, male or female. For the Roman man, sex was more a tool for dominance, rather than an expression of preference. In that context, dominant sex with a subservient, unwilling partner is wrong.
http://www.bigeye.com/sexeducation/romanempire.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_ancient_Rome
Which law takes preference, observing the Sabbath, or healing, or eating, or rescuing an animal in distress? Jesus was quite clear that even the law of the Sabbath can be broken to do good. (Luke 6:1-5, Luke 4:1-6) Similarly, I've come to believe, inclusion of the gay community and offering the hand of acceptance, overrides the ancient provisions against sodomy.
I would say that gays are still bound to love and commit to their partners, as heterosexual partners are asked to do. Don't break hearts casually.