Welcome jsssvd8, I hope to see more of your posts. Many of us on this forum have family that are still JW and it's not easy to see how brainwashed they are. Sometimes I want to take my mom and shake her brain cells around a bit!!
In my community last Sunday we had a interdominational service. There were about 6 churches represented there and it was awesome. The local pastors, ministers etc get together once a month and discuss community needs, they all get on really well and do not fight about who is right and who is wrong they all serve Christ and that's what counts.
Maybe South Africa is unique in this???? I also attened a ladies Christian retreat annualy and there are ussaly about 10 different churches represented but we worship one Lord. Who comes from which church makes no difference at all. We are Christians choosing to worship in different churches, the message is the same. The only difference is how the service is conducted. So if you like happy clappy dancing in the ailse go for it and if you like a quieter service go find one. As long as the church you are attending is teaching from the bible and not some man made doctrine how you CHOOSE to worship or where makes no difference.