Hi VoidEater
About your dad you said, "Sadly he is wrapped in the torment of wanting to be in so bad that he'll kill himself to try to believe."
That reminds me of the elder to told me, "I would rather go to my grave being deceived then to find out that the Society isn’t who they say they are."
How can such people be reached?
Here is a paraphrased version of something Paul explained to Timothy about how to go about helping someone (especially members of one's own family) get the sense of what has happened to them:
Paraphrase of 2 Timothy 2:23-26
‘You do not need to fight your father, but you need to be gentle towards him, instructing him with mildness as perhaps God may give him repentance leading to an accurate knowledge of the truth about the Watchtower Society and he may come back to his proper senses.’
On page 121 of "Captives of a Concept" reasons this way:
"Although it is good to have evidence that Jehovah’s Witnesses need to know (like that found in Chapter 3) and to be able to present it in a mild and gentle way, whether or not they will be able to get the sense of it ultimately depends on what God does.
Notice that it isn’t the evidence that will lead them to an accurate knowledge of the truth about their religion.
It is God giving them repentance that will do it.
"And according to what Paul said previously, it appears that God only gives it to those who 'accept the love of the truth.' – 2 Thessalonians 2:10,11
"It is not possible to force anyone to accept that kind of love or to change a Witness who isn’t ready to face the truth into one who is. But it may be possible to help some kinds of Witnesses notice some of the interesting things their Proclaimers
book is willing to tell them, and then leave it up to God to enable them to get the sense of what it all means.Footnote: "It would be nice if there was a way to help Witnesses want to face the truth about their religion. But their wanting to do so can only come from within themselves. Their need to know the truth must outweigh their fear of knowing it. But for those who do become ready to face the truth, the Internet has made it relatively easy for them to discover the truth. – See Chapter 18, "The Internet – The Watchtower’s Worst Nightmare," p. 112 . "
I find that if I can keep these things in mind I don't find myself saying "S heesh!" so often.
Don