Rick send me your address please
I just received a LOVELy letter from Trevor
by mouthy 56 Replies latest jw friends
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Gretchen956
Ok sue me but I have to take another tack here. I worry that this swindler is taking advantage of Grace's propensity for forgiveness. It's not like Trevor accidently bumped into one of us and says, oops, my bad. He set out to trick and deceive. As they say in the detective journals, there was malice aforethought.
Grace while you and others pray for Trevor, I pray for you all that you aren't duped a second time.
Sherry
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babygirl75
I agree with Changling & Juni....I think what may have started out as harmless, just got way out of control for him to stop and admit that he had been lying. He obviously has some serious issues he needs to deal with. We all screw up in lives though at some point and need a fresh start.
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Vinny
It's one thing to make a mistake.
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blueviceroy
The JW mindset is one of deception so maybe he just couldn't shake that addiction to fiction?
We all suffer from cult activity to one degree ar another just be virtue of being in the human race. A true path to healing is littered with mistakes and ill concieved ideas.
Perhaps one day trevor will be better and I sincerly hope he finds relief from his personal demons .
I have done worse and been forgiven , it is hardest to own our mistakes and easiest to look away.
Violating the trust of others caries it's own price, and it will be paid sooner or later
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mouthy
Grace while you and others pray for Trevor, I pray for you all that you aren't duped a second time.
Sherry
Thanks Sherry... I need all the prayers I can get. I have been fooled so many times but you know the sayings "fools rush in where Angels fear to tread " I have been duped MORE than twice so change your prayers to may be forty times
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sacrebleu
I STILL say that IF Trevor would turn his talent to writing fiction for a living, he'd be RICH.
WHY can't he do that. Then he would have nothing to be sorry for.
sacrebleu
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mouthy
That would be a good idea for him to do
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Sad emo
As long as you don't do anything other than write and forgiving him Grace!
Remember this important point (maybe vinny touched upon it too) - you can forgive someone but it is up to them to accept the forgiveness, and if they don't think they've done anything wrong, they won't.
Your offer of forgiveness is therefore not wasted or dishonoured in any way
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mouthy
I will make sure of that sademo