I just received a LOVELy letter from Trevor

by mouthy 56 Replies latest jw friends

  • Sunspot
    Sunspot
    I need all the prayers I can get. I have been fooled so many times but you know the sayings "fools rush in where Angels fear to tread " I have been duped MORE than twice so change your prayers to may be forty times

    Grace.....since you have left the WTS and have focused your love and concern on others and in truly helping them........you most likely HAVE made mistakes, but they were not because of purposely setting out to deceive those you had contact with. It was quite a feat to deliberatley dupe an entire forum of people that had taken "Linda's" (and Trevor's) plight to our hearts, respond in kind, and sob together in grief when we were told she had died, etc. It was cruel and heartless, AND so carefully orchestrated along the way.

    I would pray that I never hurt your feelings.....and I certainly have not progressed in my newfound Christianity to the point that you obviously have demonstrated ESPECIALLY in how I still view Trevor at this time.....but until HE comes forward to apologize for deeply hurting the loving members of JWD, I personally do not feel he needs or wants true cleansing or forgiveness.

    I DO care what you think. You have become VERY special to me. I admire who YOU are and what YOU are comfortable with doing......perhaps one day I too will achieve this level of pure humanity....but I am only "where I am NOW" and feeling ANY empathy for Trevor and his actions, I am afraid I cannot FIND it in me at this point in time. I do hope dear friend, that this does not offend you or have you think any less of me now.

    I could have avoided posting on this thread, but I felt compelled to do so.....and here it is. ALL of us that were involved in the emotionally painful scam that was perpetrated on this board---DO have the right to be heard and to express their opinion on how this did and still does affect them. He hit us way BELOW the belt. On purpose. If we had NOT been warm, loving and receptive to "Linda and Trevor's" needs and what we were led to believe was their tragic story....then it would have all been different. We would not have the depth OF those emotions to draw from and there would be no NEED for any further discussion on him.

    You are truly beautiful and I could not love you any more as a cherished friend than I do right now.....but I really needed to add my thoughts to this.....

    love and hugs always,

    Annie

  • Gregor
    Gregor

    Ok sue me but I have to take another tack here. I worry that this swindler is taking advantage of Grace's propensity for forgiveness. It's not like Trevor accidently bumped into one of us and says, oops, my bad. He set out to trick and deceive. As they say in the detective journals, there was malice aforethought.

    Grace while you and others pray for Trevor, I pray for you all that you aren't duped a second time.

    Sherry

    Ditto for me.

  • mouthy
    mouthy

    I do hope dear friend, that this does not offend you or have you think any less of me now

    My Very Dear Annie ((((HUGS)) I do hope your feeling better today after your ordeal. As for the above .You do NOT offend me. It is just that if you knew MY life !! I can do nothing else but forgive ANYONE that does evil against ME!....... You see Jesus forgave me. Which really amazes me. Now I know many on here laugh at that belief .....But it sure makes MY last days more livable....I was wrong for 25 years as a JW ,wrong BEFORE 1963 when I was baptised as one.I always felt I couldnt do enough.... Now I dont have to please ANYONE all I have to do is LOVE ALL even my enemies ( I think I have a few LOL) At my age I have come to the conclusion I am not in control of this rotton world, I love the beauty parts but the terrible things that are going on is out of my hands ....Before I always felt like I had to do something to help NOW I know I am just like a little ant. I walk around this vast universe carrying my own load, could be stepped on at any moment , but at least I am still seeing the sights... This dont make sense to many people I know but thats ME!!! Weird.!!!! If you listened to the testimony I sent you ,you heard me tell you others call me weird LOL

  • Sunspot
    Sunspot
    At my age I have come to the conclusion I am not in control of this rotton world, I love the beauty parts but the terrible things that are going on is out of my hands ....Before I always felt like I had to do something to help NOW I know I am just like a little ant. I walk around this vast universe carrying my own load, could be stepped on at any moment , but at least I am still seeing the sights... This dont make sense to many people I know but thats ME!!! Weird.!!!! If you listened to the testimony I sent you ,you heard me tell you others call me weird LOL

    Sometimes I have to s-t-r-e-t-c-h to understand what some posters are sayng...in YOUR case....I can say that I totally understand what you are trying to say. I have listened to the tape you sent and I didn't think you were weird in the least! So many of the things you said-I could relate to in my own life....and when I attended the WNFJ convention that you mentioned, LOL! It was delightful and I enjoyed the tape immensely. I was proud to know you all over again!

    You have so much to share and we are thrilled that you are here to share things with US!

    hugs,

    Annie

  • mouthy
    mouthy

    Love ya Annie

  • Mary
    Mary
    Mouthy said: I have been duped MORE than twice so change your prayers to may be forty times

    Grace....you haven't sent anyone else money have you? If you haven, I'm gonna give you a whuppin!!!!

  • darkuncle29
    darkuncle29

    Ok sue me but I have to take another tack here. I worry that this swindler is taking advantage of Grace's propensity for forgiveness. It's not like Trevor accidently bumped into one of us and says, oops, my bad. He set out to trick and deceive. As they say in the detective journals, there was malice aforethought.

    Grace while you and others pray for Trevor, I pray for you all that you aren't duped a second time.

    Sherry

    Ditto for me.

    Again, Ditto.

    Grace, you are a sweet Poppet, I'd hate to see you get hurt by someone who has not proven trustworthy in the past. Forgive and love, but do not lose the lesson.

    Open Question: Did I use the word "Poppet" corectly, and can I get away with that?

  • mouthy
    mouthy

    Open Question: Did I use the word "Poppet" corectly, and can I get away with that?ROTFL

    The dictionary says "small & dainty person" You would rotfl if you could see me. THAT I AINT!!!!!
    MARY????? Do you have extra sensory perception??????How did ya know LOL !!!!Glad I wont be seeing you this week I dont want a whipping Love ya sweetie

  • Sunspot
    Sunspot
    MARY????? Do you have extra sensory perception??????How did ya know LOL !!!!Glad I wont be seeing you this week I dont want a whipping Love ya sweetie

    Uh-oooooh! Is Mouthy gonna be sent to HER room? Does she need a whuppin?

  • BFD
    BFD
    MARY????? Do you have extra sensory perception??????How did ya know LOL !!!!

    Mouthy GO TO YOUR ROOM!!!!!

    BFD

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