"I am not outspoken. I never claimed to be. What I said is my family knows my position. I have told them what I think of JW policies. At the same time, I'm not on a rampage to make them adopt my beliefs, nor do I claim to have a monopoly on being right. I take offense at your words because they are judgmental, narrow minded, and not constructive".Then you state...
"I have directly told them I think jw's are a controlling cult without truth".
You seem to overlook where I differentiated being outspoken from answering when asked. That's a huge difference. I don't voluntarily offer my views to family, but when they ask I tell. That's a very simple concept to grasp.