Sooo funny JWD divorce advice!!! (page 2)

oompa

wow...thanks so much momz...and I mean that. There are so many walking wounded on JWD.....how can we not feed off each other a bit...i think I am a cannibal now too! So love you guys!..............oomps

treadnh2o

changeling

Funny?????? Maybe if you are 12 years old and don't yet know anything about life.

I'm with FHN on this one, bud. Your actions and attitude are incredibly disrespectful to your wife. Like we told you the other day: "shit or get off the pot", but playing apostaplayboy right under your wife's nose is completely inappropriate.

Mental illness is not a joke nor a high to be enjoyed. Go to the doctor and get back on your meds, then come back and read this crazy thread. If you still think it's funny, then I guess you are just an overgrown 12 year old. Your wife deserves better and so do the ladies on JWD.

changeling

treadnh2o

Oompa, You wont change her opinion pullin' a stunt like that. It does does sound like my wife though, if you threaten her with being honest with the elders it will slowly allow her to admit she doesn't want that because of the complete lack of love in the congregation and she would also be shunned. Just be cool about it. If it doesn't work out after time then you can dive her nuts.

Balsam

Living a double like will drive a person to actions they would have never considered before.

Before I left my JW husband I warned him I was going to leave 1 1/2 years before, even told him how I was going to leave him. He laughed and didn't believe me. He said who would have you, your 50 years old? I just smiled and said you'll see. It was mostly forgotten then I left, he was shocked and everyone called me crazy. I was sick and tired of the mental abuse and I started a new life away from the JW control and the misery of my 1st marriage.

I am 100% happier now than I ever was, the stress is gone.

Only you Oompa can decide if you want to remain with your JW wife, it sounds as though you've had enough of the baloney. And there is no end in sight.

Ruth

oompa

hey there ruth...you angel...knowing carl and all......that was such a nice time when I believed everything and had all the answers...

not so much now.........oompa

hey do you have a younger sister, daughter....granddaughter over 16?????lol

FlyingHighNow

Oomp, I was half kidding about the bipolar thing. But knowing a few bipolars, I see symptoms in you that are very manic. If you are indeed manic and off your meds, then please go to the doctor quickly. It's not uncommon for mania to ruin lives. Not only might you make poor decisions concerning your wife, but you might mess up with your job and other family members, too. If you are talking this crazy on the net, how are you going to control it elsewhere?

I am saying these things because I care. Of course we all want to see you happy, but wrecking your marriage on a manic high will not make your life happier. It will make things more complicated than they need to be.

dinah

Oompa is just getting a little courage.

Those manic phases just remind you that you're alive.

You are coming to a crossroad, Oompa.

You girls need to get off his back. Every man isn't an a**shole, some really try. Look what Oompa is up against trying to keep his woman. The WT is gone for him, but she hangs on. You all know the WT is GOD, the EVERYTHING. As long as you have the WT you don't need anyone or anything else. Yep, throw LOVE out the window.

If she won't follow him, she follows the WT.

I wanna do a drive by. bastards

oompa

Changeling....please...just please..........you said:

but playing apostaplayboy right under your wife's nose is completely inappropriate.

you know i was (am) bouncing off the ceiling.....did i come across as an intentioanal apostabplayboty though???? I am not an aposta playboy.......but right now it does feel damn good....hell everything feels damn good......and I think you know how things can happen.....feelings do get involved....and i would never want to hurt anyone!!!......

and yes........my wife deserves so much better...that three fold cord was supposed to really hold it all together right? Well it is now a two fold string....her and hobba. But not me. You want to call me a 12 year old?.....fine. Maybe I deserve that....but for me it feels more like 18...and hell yeah....that was a good year for me dammit....one of the few. And now I am reduced to asking for ELDER help!!!! Please let an elevator truck just run over me....you think 12 year olds are so desperate for help they would go back to the elder slime pit for help???? cmon girl....that is more that desperate...coaster has not left the building with elvis..........don't know why...right now...it so matters that you and you husband would not think this badly of me.....and I just

And yeah, just in case ANY other damaged walking wounded ladies here on JWD would even THINK of wanting to get to know me..........you just heard it from Changeling....you ALSO deserve better than oompa! so listen to her!....I sure plan to...she has some serious insight on life. If you need help in your marriage....prob a good idea to get it from the same gender....sorry friends...do love you guys.....sorry....oompa

edit. is that....hey it was a bit funny that so much came out from a ltiny augh snort on the laptop...I could have so easily lied aobut what made me laugh....but I could just not do it again...I told the truth

dinah

Oh My DAMN

Oompa, you and I have had many PM's back and forth. You never said anything that could ever even be conceived as inappropriate, even though we've had some frank discussions.

Friendship can reach across gender.

Just because a man speaks to you doesn't mean he wants to defile your body. Men and women can be friends ONLY and they sometimes can help each other.

Sooo funny JWD divorce advice!!!

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