JAMBON 1- Our self esteem and our free thinking minds were always criticized in the Jehovah's Witness cult. As you stated " nothing we did was ever good enough " - which left somewhat of an inferiority complex within some of us. I'm glad you have moved on and are protecting your children. I'm trying to reach 2 of my 3 adult children. 2 JW daughters still in 23 and 21. I hope it's not too late for them. Gonna keep trying