For Valentine's Day I made my wife cry (page 2)

beksbks

Good for you JP, I can't imagine being in this situation like so many are. I would say now is definitely the time to be the most wonderful man in the world beyond the dubs. No woman wants to give up the love of her life, and hopefully that human aspect will sink in beyond all the unnatural JW stuff.

cameo-d

said I'm scared to say anything because I'm not allowed to have my own opinion. She disagreed with that. I said, "You are not allowed to have an opinion that differs from the Watchtower Society. If you do, they will try to cut you off from your family. I hope that you will not leave me and try to take my child away from me."

How could she not know this? Hasn't she seen it within the congregation ever, or heard it talked about concerning other people?

It floors me that she would act like this is total made-up BS.

How can she be so naieve?

And see...it's all ready working. She runs to her sister. And now she will probably find that what she confides in her sister will not be kept confidential, but will be repeated. She will or you will--- be turned in to the elders by the nazi pioneer spy.

I am sorry if this happens but maybe that's what it will take for this to convince her that you were right. Let the actions make the point for you.

Maybe then she will believe. And then there can be a happy ending after all.

JimmyPage

No woman wants to give up the love of her life, and hopefully that human aspect will sink in beyond all the unnatural JW stuff.

I think one thing I have going for me is that she knew I was inactive and she married me anyway. I think that proves that she didn't marry me for being a good little WT robot.

JimmyPage

She runs to her sister. And now she will probably find that what she confides in her sister will not be kept confidential, but will be repeated. She will or you will--- be turned in to the elders by the nazi pioneer spy

I hope this doesn't happen but it would probably be naive of me to think that way. This pioneer has her lips firmly planted on the P.O.'s butt at all times.

Homerovah the Almighty

Good for you, perhaps a little honesty, intelligence and personal integrity will rub off on to your wife.........alll the best

sacolton

Wow! That was intense. I really admire your courage to speak out on your feelings. Hope things work out for both of you.

BizzyBee

Hold tight, brother. You are being true to a principle much greater than the WTS. You wife will either respect it or not - but from a female POV - a man who is strong in his beliefs is extremely compelling. DO NOT BACK DOWN! You will lose forever if you do - no second chances!

JimmyPage

Damn that's good advice, BizzyBee.

beksbks

but from a female POV - a man who is strong in his beliefs is extremely compelling.

Unless.............he's wrong

JimmyPage

Just when I was feelin' sexy.

For Valentine's Day I made my wife cry

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