Good morning, Jeff:
This one is troubling for me, as I am unable to account for the unanswered prayers of others. This is taking into consideration the numerous ways in which God has allegedly abandoned many of the members of JWN. They are angry and bitter, and, as they ponder the misery of their former JW experience, I will not question or judge them.
I am unemployed. Yet week after week enough money comes in to pay that week's bills, often to the dollar. I am not homeless and will continue having a roof over my head. I have no automobile of my own but now have wheels. I am known among my peers to say "Jehovah provides." Or "the Lord." Or "the Universe." I am, by nature and nurture, a guy Pollyanna. Maybe none of the above proves a thing, objectively speaking. Focus on the personal fulfillment of Matthew 6:33 is paramount with me; however, my understanding and application of that verse is not that of the WTB&TS. It's more universalist in outlook. Help others and it will come back to you - so often in the most unexpected manner.
My perspective is very narrow, I realize, and does not address why God ignores prayers in the broad scope discussed here on JWN.
Given how I've changed - grown up - I have no compulsion to convince others for or against anything. Sharing our thoughts and experiences with others is all we can do. Thanks for the opportunity.
I will not pray to become a bestselling writer, but I can hope and work toward publication. You can relate to that, right, Jeff?
CoCo