Family is gossiping about me, and then I get a letter

by nextdoorgirl 82 Replies latest watchtower bible

  • loosie
    loosie
    And please don't give up on Jehovah. He will never hurt you.

    Yeah he won't hurt you unless you are from a nearby tribe and inhabit the land he wants his people to have... then he will send an army of them over to your tribe to cut off your foreskin and bring them back to him for proof....but he will never hurt you.

  • moshe
    moshe

    They have already picked out your casket, I'm afraid.

  • nextdoorgirl
    nextdoorgirl

    Yep, they're all a bunch of sadistic assholes anyway, with a nice dash of self-righteous arrogance!

    I won't miss them. I made my case clear: They lack love, this is unchristian, which makes them hypocrites, and I will sue them for harming me.

    "They have already picked out your casket, I'm afraid."

    Them: So, I say: "Ohhh! Are you mourning me....my death? Thanks for BURYING ME ALIVE, assholes!!!!"

    Oh well. (shrug). This ghost is on the fly! Whee! Who needs enemies, when you got family/friends like them?

    Haha at Loosie. Great point. LU-U-U-V it!!

  • nextdoorgirl
    nextdoorgirl

    I want to add:

    Don't think you can hide behind silence and not respond to my request for the gossipers and the statements they made that have caused you to doubt me and withdraw your association. You are my chief witness. You will be subpoened to testify in court how what you heard materially affected my reputation in your eyes, and how you chose to shun me. You are the proof the malicious rumours damaged my reputation in my social circle. Further, you will be asked to provide the names and the statements.

    Provide them now, to avoid further damage to my reputation and prevent unneccessary lawsuits. These people must be warned.

    If anyone acts on these rumours, someone else is going to get sued.

  • Mary
    Mary
    I've been hearing some very saddening things

    'Saddening'---does that mean she's not 'happified' with you anymore?

    Seriously though, is English her second language? Not only was it double-speak, judgemental and just plain old ridiculous, but she uses words that aren't even really words.

  • nextdoorgirl
    nextdoorgirl

    Haha! at Mary. I love it!

    I decided to go ahead and send the other part, I posted above. I figured, you really have to spell things out to people. Dumb, de dumb DUMB.

  • blondie
    blondie

    "I am waiting for you to provide urgent information that can materially affect my life: the names of the people and the statements made about me that have caused you to doubt me and threaten to withdraw your association.

    Without this information, how can I confirm or deny what is being said about me?

    These malicious rumours are damaging me in my social circle, as your statements above display--you demand I confirm or deny these rumours and if I do not, you will discontinue associating with me, taking that as a silent confirmation of truth to the malicious rumours. This only shows the extent of the damage already done by the rumours--you are ready to believe, with no evidence, that they are true, if I do not respond to the accusations.
    ""

    This is exactly what I said to the elder I met with bringing a family member along who had heard the "rumors." Matthew 18 had not taken place and it was not a df'ing offense. In the end, I remember if family members and "friends" believed the lies without approaching me with the details and encouraging the talebearers to approach me first, that they are deeply flawed already.

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    marking for later look...

    Snakes (Rich )

  • nextdoorgirl
    nextdoorgirl

    "In the end, I remember if family members and "friends" believed the lies without approaching me with the details and encouraging the talebearers to approach me first, that they are deeply flawed already."

    Nice. Agreed.

    Looking forward to the thoughts, Snakes.

    By the way, I haven't received a response yet. Hmmm.....interesting. What do you think will happen?

  • nextdoorgirl
    nextdoorgirl

    Another response:

    I'll level with you. The reason I've decied not to associate with you is from what you have said to me not what anybody else has. What those others said to me made me want to reach out to you in the first place but through out our conversation you have done nothing but dodged my questions which were asked purely out of concern for you, insulted me by telling me I am not a true christian and have spoken angrily about retaliating against people who you don't even know slandered you in the first place. I revealed nothing to you about what was said. For all you know it was truth they spoke. i hope the best for you and wish that I could be there for you. But until you honestly tell me that you are or want to follow Jehovah God...i simply cannot. I need to know that you still love Jehovah and want to be his friend before I can be yours. As regards to sueing your fellow brothers and sisters in the faith that is between you and Jehovah. I hope you, for your sake have a change of heart. For we are all judged by our actions by Jehovah. "Vengence is mine..." is how he feels about revenge. As for me I will testify to the only truth that I know. Nothing more. I hope the best for you and hope that someday in the future you and I can once again be friends.

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