Terry what are your thoughts on Sexual Conquest?
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A daugther's purity
by mrsjones5 46 Replies latest jw friends
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notverylikely
For some reason this thread reminds of something a comedian said... "It's OK to say you love kids, you just can't get too specific about it, like 'I love 14 year old kids.'"
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sabastious
^ Hah!
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wasblind
I agree with you Josie,
i don't think it's anyone business
to know whats going on in another
persons pants unless they are their
Doctor or mate.
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mrsjones5
OMG what is a purity ball!?!?!?!
A purity ball (also known as a father-daughter purity ball [1] or purity wedding [2] ) is a formal ball dance event attended by fathers and their daughters. Purity balls promote virginityuntil marriage for teenage girls, and are often closely associated with Evangelical Christian churches in the USA. [citation needed] Typically, daughters who attend make a virginity pledge; a pledge to remain sexually abstinent until marriage. Fathers who attend pledge to protect what they view as their young daughters' purity of mind, body, and soul. Proponents [who?] promote a strong father-daughter relationship as a means to affirm what they consider to constitute spiritual and physical purity.
Writer and feminist Eve Ensler criticizes purity balls for what she sees as the position of inferiority it puts the daughters in:
- "When you sign a pledge to your father to preserve your virginity, your sexuality is basically being taken away from you until you sign yet another contract, a marital one...It makes you feel like you’re the least important person in the whole equation. It makes you feel invisible." [1]
Conservative journalist Betsy Hart , while supporting the idea of sexual abstinence prior to marriage, has expressed concerns that the strong focus of purity balls on the concept of virginity may actually sexualize youth, albeit in an unintended way. [3]
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nelly136
i have a purity baseball bat, if my daughter brings home what looks like potential boyfriend material i warmly introduce him to the bat and tell him if he'd messes mini-me about, i will fashion him a new set of dangly earings from recycled body parts.
we've done the birds bees and contraception chats cos you cant always rely on plan A
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notverylikely
i have a purity baseball bat, if my daughter brings home what looks like potential boyfriend material i warmly introduce him to the bat and tell him if he'd messes mini-me about
Nothing like sexual AND emotional repression.
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Terry
Terry what are your thoughts on Sexual Conquest?
-Sab
Inevitable that a man THINKS he is a conqueror and that he is wrong.
Inevitable that a woman wants to overcome her inhibition at some point and be "conquered".
Somewhere in all that illusion we get made by clumsy craftsmen!
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wasblind
"Somewhere in all that illusion we get made by clumsy craftsmen!"
LOL Terry, clumsy is right !!!
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nelly136
nvl, i think you missed plan B underneath that