Ok
And if it as is you say, why is she here asking the question?
Mistresses??
by diana netherton 160 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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AK - Jeff
I didn't read the entire thread thoroughly, so pardon if I missed key points.
It seems to me, that there could be mistress situations in which prostitution/call girl/hooker/whore/gold digger etc. do not fit at all.
Is is not possible that a mistress could be a willing party to a three-way agreement? That the mistress could live her life as usual, except that she is a sexual partner to a married man, for just the sex on both sides? Are there not possible arrangements in which the wife could actually approve of such an agreement, even encourage such an agreement, perhaps because she could not be bothered with sex or is limited in that regard physically for example?
My point being this: This was not the precise arrangement suggested by the author of this thread. But it seems that there has been aggressive opinion that suggests that this arrangement is limited to those willing to 'lower themselves' below some moral thresh-hold.
It seems that this discussion has often deviated into 'marriage wrecker' type scenario. It may be possible in some instances that the marriage is actually strong, the mistress arrangement fully acceptable to all parties - similar to an affair - but affairs are usually secretive, hidden, and due to that, far more damaging to the parties at some point. Also not fair to call such activity prostitution or similar, since it is not for material exchange.
As stated before, to each his own. I think, that like much else in life, there may be reasonable and rational people involved on both sides of some of these arrangements. As long as no one is injured, all parties are agreeable, then Why Not?
Just my two Far-lings.
Jeff
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notverylikely
If you wouldn't oppose it, then fair enough, that's your right. Your position is that prostitution is an acceptable occupation. Please elaborate on how it is and why.
It's a personal service in exchange for money. Why wouldn't it be?
Therefore, I assume a request for sexual services from a family member wouldn't be an insult to you, rather it's an opportunity for income, like any profession. If so, then why the indignation at my question?
Oh, that was totally fake indignation. Smack talking :)
Your momma's so ugly, I could put her face in some cookie dough and make gorilla cookies. I'd make millions.
Fuck. That would be more funny if I knew what gorilla cookies were.
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StAnn
Don't do it. You'll regret it for the rest of your life. You deserve better than that and you need to learn that you are more valuable than a woman who is just a mistress. Don't allow yourself to accept that you're not a worthwhile woman.
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yknot
And if it as is you say, why is she here asking the question?
She is musing her about some options of life....... and like a lot of women is interested in feedback on this one particular idea, nothing more.
My first suggestion was to go a different route......
At strip clubs men get screwed, not f**ked
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RebeccaChi
I didn't have time to read the other comments, but I strongly suggest you do not do this. How well do you even know this guy? Why would he be willing to pay for your schooling for sex when in this day and age any guy (almost) can get sex for free. There are a lot of desperate women (many who are also attractive like you) out there so lonely that they would have this type of relationship without the perks. So my question is . . . Why would he be willing to put out money for you? Also he may start off wanting normal sex, and start asking for more and more kinky things that you may not want to do. (Just saying, this is a strong possibility.) What if he gets mad at you and wants the money back? What if his wife snaps and comes after you or your family? This relationship would most likely hinder any possible relationship with a decent guy, maybe someone you meet in school. What if you met a decent guy and wanted to begin a relationship with him? Would sugar daddy freak out, go after him or you? Would he again demand his money back? Try to destroy your reputation? Please think really hard about this. This sounds like (in a sense) a "deal" too good to be true. No matter what, one of you will get screwed over in the end.
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notverylikely
Better yet, bare your own ass for a few bucks. It's ok, there's vasoline for comfort.
Just be prepared to handle the awesomeness, baby.
And cash only. You can leave it on the nightstand right next to my Koran :)
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RebeccaChi
Strippers are trash. Please don't suggest that to our Ex-Jdub friend. Many are hookers and crack whores on the side. Stay away from that crowd.
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yknot
I agree that prolonged exposure to that sordid world is a bad thing..... it destroys one's sense of hope and understanding of social norms.
However if she is hurting for a little financial relief and is consider that sort of options (sex)......... there is less commitment and she could work doing poker tables or a bartender.......
All in all I would personally hope all this brainstorming yields more 'wholesome' avenues....
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Gregor
Please excuse if I am going over plowed ground. I have not read all the posts.
By definition a mistress is a "kept woman". In most societies that have accepted the concept, it naturally involves only upper class men who can afford to maintain a 'real' family and a mistress.
Somehow I don't think that is what you are contemplating. Think twice before you get involved in being involved some guy who is willing to rent your body for a few bucks.