"Zid, I am not much for going back to the mud, but even I got enticed by your idea. ..."
Why, thanks, Isaac Caustin!!
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"Zid, I am not much for going back to the mud, but even I got enticed by your idea. ..."
Why, thanks, Isaac Caustin!!
What your situation now, Dan?
Is your family still in your house?
Are you living there now or have you moved out?
Is your wife still talking in terms of moving to Colorado?
I got my phone back. She told me yesterday, "Your girlfriend from (the place Zid lives) called."
I laughed.
Ziddina is sexy when she goes, "Ooooh yeah."
Glad things are better Dan, and glad to hear it was only 2 beers.
Think About It
Please tell me you didn't actually sleep in your car last night...
"Ziddina is sexy when she goes, "Ooooh yeah." ..." Why, thanks!! (blush, blush...)
(Actually, I was shooting for "pure evil" - Bwah, hah hah hah ha ha haaaaaa! )
I snuck in the house and slept in the office/guest bedroom. I thought I was going to have to sleep in the car.
I have told her that she does not have my permission to take the kids out of state. I also said that I will leave instead of her. My kids need their home. I'm strongly considering backing down a bit for now until things calm down. I have a feeling that I'm not handeling any of this right.
(Sorry. off topic)
What Poopsiecakes said - ?? Do you have ANY non-JW friends that can help you???
For that matter - and again, this might be a REALLY BAD idea - have you considered looking around for any not-for-profit organization that assists people involved with cults???
You need someplace to crash where you won't be bothered and can spend time plotting your strategies...
I don't really have any non-JW friends. I was happy just having my wife as my best friend.
How is your wife reacting now, Dan?
Will she stay in the house?
Is she still preparing to leave?
Please email the friend I mentioned to you.
You need someone you can talk with face to face.
I don't really have any non-JW friends.
Take action to remedy this, quickly. Perhaps a co-worker or two. Some with a similar hobby, etc. Non-JW extended family/cousins.
They CANNOT understand what you're going through, so don't try to explain it. They are literally incapable of grasping it, and frankly they don't care. They CAN understand that you're in a tough spot right now.
Baby steps. You have the skills needed to avoid people who would not make good friends.