where does Paul say that the gifts of the spirit stopped with him?
I am SO glad you asked that, dear tec (peace to you!)... because I was actually going to do a separate post of that very subject! Since but you asked... Paul did not say that. That... is a[nother] VERY erroneous teaching of the WTBTS! Let's look at what Paul DID write... and I will set it out in difference versions to help us see exactly what he meant.
Version 1 (NLT), which is not a really good one:
"Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever! Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture! But when full understanding comes, these partial things will become useless. This is inaccurate and misleading. When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. Now we see things imperfectly as in a cloudy mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely." The question here is what is meant by "then".
Version 2 (NIV), which is a little better:
"But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. This is better because it is referring to some kind of "completeness"... versus "full understanding" which is inaccurate. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face.This gives us a better sense of what Paul meant - think... what... or WHO... is a "reflection"... and what... or WHO shall we see "face to face"? Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known."
Version 3 (MSG), which is just a tad better than the NIV:
"Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled. What... or WHO... "arrives"... and is it, he, or she... complete? When I was an infant at my mother's breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good. We don't yet see things clearly. We're squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We'll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!"
Version 4 (NWT), still not totally accurate but my preference; note, please, my notes:
"But whether there are [gifts of] prophesying, they will be done away with; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will be done away with. Yes, but WHEN? For we have partial knowledge and we prophesy partially; but when that which is complete arrives, that which is partial will be done away with. When I was a babe, I used to speak as a babe, to think as a babe, to reason as a babe; but now that I have become a man, I have done away with the [traits] of a babe. For at present we see in hazy outline by means of a metal mirror, but then it will be face to face. At present I know partially, but then I shall know accurately even as I am accurately known."
So, what was Paul saying? He was saying that the things we do, know, and understand NOW... by means of the gifts of the spirit... are only PARTIAL. For example, if one has the gift of healing... such healing is only partial. Why? Because the healed person can and will get sick... again! And one has the gift of tongues, the results of the gift is only partial... because one can only speak one or two languages... but not ALL languages. And if one prophesies... one can only prophesy partially... because everything is not yet known to such one. It's all partial... or incomplete... because what we see NOW... is only the REFLECTION [of God]... by means of looking at the MIRROR (Christ).
BUT... that when Christ ARRIVES... the partial knowledge and partial understanding and partial healings and partial prophesying... that we have/know/do NOW... will be done away with! Why? Because... by means of HIM... we will THEN know and understand FULLY. Because THEN... ALL will be everlastingly healed. THEN... all prophesies will have been FULFILLED. So that what is partial... incomplete... is done away with. Because, Christ... the One who IS "The Complete"... will have arrived!
THEN... we will see him... face to face... and because of him... see God... face to face. And we THEN know God... accurately... as we are NOW accurately known BY God.
But for now... the gifts of the spirit very well do exist. They are real. For a certainty. Unfortunately, there are a lot of imposters out there who use the possibility of such gifts to deceive and mislead others. The gifts have ONE purpose, however: they are to be used for a "good" work... namely, the building up of the Body of Christ.
you know, she actually means it. She truly does love me.
I truly do. (Smile)
Peace to you, my dear sister in Christ!
YOUR servant, sister, and fellow slave of Christ,
SA