The bible has also done a great injustice to male/female relationships. It completely unbalanced the male/female energies on the planet. It set up a patriarchal society that, much to its shame, endures to this day. Never mind the bloodshed and rape in the name of God and his laws!
Hadit, you've described here a couple of my wake up thoughts regarding the Bible as a teenager. I witnessed my Mom allowing headship and the resulting miserableness it cause her. Subjugation is not loving and therefore, conflicts with Christ's teaching of Love. Same with murder and rape. These things all smack of men (and specifically Middle Eastern men), and not a higher, loving, enlightened power.