AnneB,
I see your point, however, your assumption is incorrect. Although I don’t have the time to address every issue like this, perhaps by me clearing up your misconception I will be preventing further ones. I in fact did say exactly what I wanted, and I was open about it.
If you look at my initial post, I explain why I’ve posted this question. Because I had asked my friend a question that I had assumed was easy, after having not heard from them it dawned on me that maybe it wasn’t such an easy question after all. I thought it was easy, but perhaps they didn’t. It was natural for me to approach the topic line in a “Is it not…” sort of way (having thought it was an easy question).
It is not a case of wanting someone to agree (or disagree for that matter), I assure you. In fact, if it is not an easy question, I want to be shown how it is not, from a JW perspective. Notice how I am welcoming the comments that tell me that it is not an easy question. I only want a truthful, honest answer.