Interesting that someone else picked up the same messages I saw in the text - the almost "erotic" tone in the narrative. Ugly thought. But on the other hand my first marriage turned out to be to a guy who was "bisexual." I divorced him, needless to say. But nevertheless the experience now causes me to pick up on these tendencies in people. And then when I watched the video's of his talks that have been preserved it gave me a "very uncomfortable" feeling. And then when I read the transcript of his divorce - it came out he and his wife "never had had sex." Hmm - very very strange behavior, I'd say. At the same time there were inuendo's that he showed affectionate behavior to another young female in the home - supposedly a daughter father type relationship. She used to sit on his knee. Turned out her age was 25. Hmm again! If I were Maria I wouldn't have been a bit happy about the situation either. But there is something about this character that is just not right. Not saying he ever committed any wrongful acts per se but he gave off vibes I just don't feel good about.
That aside there are many good points one can find about him also. No human being is ALL good or ALL ugly. So I try to keep looking for the positive but sometimes the negative overpowers - it did in this account for me.