Late to the party as usual but was rofling at the favourite JWN insult - 'asshole'.
LOL. I think there are two favorites actually. One being the above mentioned, and the other being crazy/delusional... or 'batshit' crazy, as some prefer ;)
(and now my youngest son - reading over my shoulder - is laughing because I used the word 'batshit')
I think you're describing confirmation bias in the rest of your post, Q. I also think all people have it, including atheists. Hard for any of us to look objectively, but just as we all have confirmation bias, we are all capable of looking objectively (at least each of us as well as the other guy)
Meanwhile the rest of us humbly limit ourselves to what actaully can be known, or what we are personally able to understand and get abused by those who are less able or willing to recognise the limits of reality.See, this is something I have noticed. Atheists believe that they are attacked. Theists believe that they are attacked. Both can be and are true. But the provocation doesn't always come from the one you are attacking or retaliating against. For instance, taking something out on one person that someone entirely different has done... simply because that person shares the title 'atheist' or 'believer'. Bob, the local pastor/elder/whatever, called you hard-headed and immoral because you are an atheist... so later, you treat another believer who doesn't make that judgment call with anyone, as if she was the one who said it. She, in turn, treats the net atheist she meets as if he is a condescending jerk, because that was just her e x perience. And so on and so on. Theists don't like to be accused of being ignorant, stupid, crazy, delusional, needy, what-have-you. Atheists don't like to be accused of being hard-headed, close-minded, immoral, assholes. But the attacks happen on both sides, and feeds the fire and 'us' vs. 'them'. When a lot of that could be avoided if those people pointed a few less fingers, and respected that someone else has chosen a different path that is not ours to judge (as long as it causes no harm). Peace, Tammy