Bio, would you have come to that conclusion, reading that account for yourself, if you had NOT been taught it by someone else first? If so, can you show me how you would have drawn that conclusion? Because I know that I would not have. The english is wrong. The only grammatical reason for writing in that Adam was with her... is for Adam to have been with her when she took the fruit and ate. Because he would naturally HAVE to be with her if she gave him something later on.
"When the woman saw that the fruit of the treee was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desireable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it."
It is true that the account does not say anything about when she 'took some and ate it'... (whether that was in front of the serpent or not)... but it does say that Adam was with her when she took some and ate it. Otherwise it would just say that she also gave some to her husband and he ate it. Leaving out, who was with her.
So he knew what he was doing and what he was eating from. Paul corroborates that from saying that Adam was not deceived. I always thought the reason they had this spin was so that Adam looked innocent, and Eve had lured him into doing something that he didn't realize he shouldn't be doing. The whole blame it on women thing ;)
Peace,
Tammy