I was following some links researching something to do with my condition when I came across this article by the well known christian author John Piper called "Don't Waste Your Cancer".
If I had still been a christian when I got my diagnosis I would have been subjected to these sort of pious platitudes.
Here are a few gems, read the full article if you wish but not on a full stomach.
Cancer is not wasted when it is healed by God. He gets the glory and that is why cancer exists. So not to pray for healing may waste your cancer. But healing is not God’s plan for everyone.
If you don’t believe your cancer is designed for you by God, you will waste it.
You will waste your cancer if you believe it is a curse and not a gift.
The aim of God in your cancer (among a thousand other good things) is to knock props out from under our hearts so that we rely utterly on him.
Cancer is meant to waken us to the reality of God.
Cancer is designed to destroy the appetite for sin
This will be your opportunity to bear witness” . So it is with cancer. This will be an opportunity to bear witness.
I am so relieved that I don't have to endure the added burden of having to "believe six impossible things before breakfast". I think that cancer would not have broken my faith by itself but being asked to believe this kind of well meaning sophistry almost certainly would have.