LOGICAL - Why are you always so sad, fed up & (page 3)

Cygnus

logical is a bad chess player

but a great sport

logical, if you have Morpheus or Kazaa, download the song "Jehovah Made This Joint For You" by the New Radicals. it will definitely cheer you up.

bigboi

why is it OK for Logical to behave in a hurtful, rude, selfish manner, and not OK for anyone to speak up about it?

Good point.

Flower,
As I said before it took a very long time for Logical to trust me. Being that is a hang up Logical has, perhaps you can understand that he is not going to unload and tell all to just anyone. By your own actions you have proven yourself untrustworthy. I personally would ignore you too if you posted private IM chats, and made public, some private info I had given you.

Give up on it okay? I see your point, to a certain degree, yet you really cannot tell a puppy, "Love me dammit!" and the dog will come running to you giving you undieing respect, and devotion.
wendy

flower

i could care less about hearing his problems i am talking about treating people in a rude and downright hurtful way but i guess i have done things to deserve that too right? ok thanks mommy. kinda ironic your handle..my real mom has become a master at turning things around and making them my fault too. the worst thing is i still believe it when she does it too. guess your right and i'm wrong

thanks.

flower

bigboi

I never thought ppl actually took logical this seriously. Do y'all really?

ONE....

bigboi

bitter mango

mommy, i agree with your posts . it took me forever to get logi to even somewhat trust me. most of the people that cry and whine about logi being sad and depressed all the time have no fucking idea how many hours/days you, i and others have spent talking with him and trying to really help him. they have maybe tried to email him a few times, or tried to talk to him in chat a couple times, but they haven't really tried to get to know him. and i will be the first person to say that logi has been the hardest person for me to get to know!!! he can be incredibly difficult and stubborn. but i have the patience to sit and try to get through to him. some people dont, and i don't think there is anything wrong with that at all, but just ignore him if he bothers you. there is no need to bitch and moan about him, he already knows what he needs to do, he just hasn't got around to doing it yet. there are a few people on this board who annoy the hell out of me, but it isn't hard to avoid them. this is the internet, not real life. you can pick and choose who you want to hear from, and talk to.

Farkel

Logical is just as important and just as significant as everyone else on the board. So is Legion. Legion shows us the evil in ourselves that we need to constantly deal with and conquer. Logical shows us the dispair and self-doubt that all humans face from time-to-time.

Everyone makes a difference. It's all a matter of perspective, and we are all mirrors of each other.

The Creator may or may not have given us a redeemer, but it is an absolute fact that he gave us each other.

Farkel

"I didn't mean what I meant."

larc

logical,

Some of the advice to you has been kind; some has been harsh. All of it has the same object, to try to get you to more progress. Try to look past any harshness and read what people are telling you.

I would suggest you do something. When someone is in pain and expresses it, take the time to write some words of comfort, or at least acknowledge you understand how they feel. Yes, it will take some effort, but extend that effort. It will do you and the other person some good. When I say, "write some words", I mean at least 3-4 sentences of explaination, not just a one liner. Make that effort, even if it is very hard for you at first. Sometimes, the best way to help ourselves is by making that effort to help others.

Also, if you want others to talk to you, take the time to start a conversation, both here and in real life.

I wish you well.

flower

"Therein lies most of the problem. You do not even know half of what Logi has gone through, I just know if you did you would be more understanding"

no the problem lies in that Logic doesnt know what I (or others) have been through either but its ok for him to treat ME like crap but its not ok for him to be called on the carpet about it. Thats the problem. The problem is that you get to pick and choose who is entitled to pain and who isnt. You get to decide whose problems are valid and whose arent. You are deciding who is allowed to act like an asshole because of their problems and who should behave like a human being regardless of what they have been through. Or is there some unwritten rule saying that anyone whose problems are regarding their sex or sexuality is excused from the rules of common courtesy and can treat people like crap?

mommy

Flower,
You asked

Or is there some unwritten rule saying that anyone whose problems are regarding their sex or sexuality is excused from the rules of common courtesy and can treat people like crap?

Do you realize it ws just a few months ago that Logi revealed this part of himself to everyone here? It took him a very long time to even mention this aspect of himself. Nah you wouldn't realize that, you have only been here a few months.

I agree with you that it is not okay to treat someone bad, I never said it was. I guess maybe I am missing something that went on with you two, which really isn't any of my business. When I mentioned that you were untrustworthy, it is because I saw you post a private IM message with him on a public board. I was trying to get across to you that a person who has problems trusting others are not going to be willing to trust you in the future. Perhaps whatever happened between you two happened before the chat was posted. Either way as my first post said, you cannot expect another person to change their mental health based on a timeline you feel is a good one.

As far as my handle, I chose that because that is who I see myself first, the mom of my kids. If you have problems with your own mommy, please take it up with her.

I am going to give a bit of advice here, and you can take it anyway you want. Turn off the PC, get outside, take a nap, whatever, do something else for a bit. You are getting very upset over this, and I hate to see that. I have been told a few times to do the above, and guess what? It works! Remove yourself from this situation and you will not be so upset okay? After you have calmed down, maybe you can come back and we can talk again.
wendy

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