I dunno, lotsa people live secret lives in a sense. Not so alarming or unusual methinks.
I realize many people here may "put on appearances" for the sake of family but that's a bit different IMO. I get the sense many don't enjoy it.
I couldn't do the dual life thing though. I got tired of the counter intelligence, lies, conflicting ideals and goals, etc. Life is so much better not living a lie.