Very well said, Kate.
In addition to what keyser says above, this forum is especially sensitive right now. I've never known it as extraordinarily touchy as it is this week. Don't take things personally.
There are people around who are crying "troll" so often and so loudly you'd think they'd never even heard the story of the boy who cried wolf.
See what being a JW does to you. ;)
i'm going to send you a PM shortly. Keep checking!