The truth is, that the scriptures never support lying, ever.
Just because the Bible is silent on a matter does not mean that approval was given. Change name, you should carefully read the account in Genesis 20 of Abraham lying about Sarah being his sister. Here is what YHWH about that evil " worldly " King Abimelech.
Genesis 20: 4-6 " However, A·bim′e·lech had not gone near her. Hence he said: "Jehovah, will you kill a nation that is really righteous? 5 Did not he say to me, 'She is my sister'? and she-did not she too say, 'He is my brother'? In the honesty of my heart and with innocency of my hands I have done this." 6 At that the [true] God said to him in the dream: "I too have known that in the honesty of your heart you have done this, and I was also holding you back from sinning against me. That is why I did not allow you to touch her.
Continue reading and you will see how hurt Abimelech was by the dishonesty of Abraham. Why did Abraham lie? Consider verse 11 " To this Abraham said: "It was because I said to myself, 'Doubtless there is no fear of God in this place, and they will certainly kill me because of my wife. " YHWH had promised to make a great nation from Abraham. That was not going to happen if Abraham was dead. So Abraham's fear of man caused him to assume that King Abimelech had no fear of YHWH. Lying is unscriptural.
Watchtower 2004 6/1 Do Your Circumstances Control Your Life?
Wait on Jehovah
The third lesson is that instead of using unscriptural means to change our circumstances, we should wait on Jehovah. The disciple James wrote: "Let endurance have its work complete, that you may be complete and sound in all respects, not lacking in anything." (James 1:4) Endurance should be allowed to have "its work complete" by our permitting a trial to run its full course without resorting to unscriptural means to bring it to a swift end. Then our faith will be tested and refined, and its sustaining power will be revealed.
Joseph and David had this kind of endurance. They did not try to work out a solution that might incur Jehovah's displeasure. Instead, they worked to make the best of their situations. They waited on Jehovah, and what blessings they received for doing so! Jehovah used both of them to deliver and to lead his people.-Genesis 41:39-41; 45:5; 2 Samuel 5:4, 5.We too may face situations for which we could be tempted to seek unscriptural solutions. For example, are you discouraged because you have not yet found a suitable marriage mate? If so, avoid any temptation to disobey Jehovah's command to marry "only in the Lord." (1 Corinthians 7:39)
Are you dealing with problems in your marriage? Rather than give in to the spirit of the world that promotes separation and divorce, work through the hard times together. (Malachi 2:16; Ephesians 5:21-33) Are you having difficulties caring for your family because of your economic situation? Waiting on Jehovah includes avoiding questionable or illegal activities to try to obtain money. (Psalm 37:25; Hebrews 13:18) Yes, all of us must work hard to make the best of our circumstances and put forth effort to give Jehovah something to bless. As we do so, let us be determined to wait on Jehovah for the perfect solution.-Micah 7:7.
What would be an unscriptural solution to obtain money that would bring a swift end to your problems? Cheating on your taxes? Robbing a Bank? Lying?!! Obviously, lying is wrong. Even children understand this. Abraham should have waited on YHWH instead of letting fear of man cause him to seek an unscriptural solution to his problem. He should have " waited on Jehovah " for a " perfect solution." Instead he lied. He was forgiven, but he lied.
Peter lied as well, denying Christ three times! He was forgiven as well. Jacob lied too. That does not mean the YHWH approves of lying.
Some religious leaders lie when it suits them. They also cherry-pick verses from the scriptures without regard to the context of the entire account in order to support their dogmatic views.