It is not so much that I am nervous.It is the fact shw knows my views on God and religon and other issues. I am letting this go because she seems to me too religous for my taste.She is nice and we have talked about school and future plans for ourselves. I should muster up the courage to tell her but I feel it will be a lost cause.
Nervous confronting a women I like
by d 76 Replies latest social relationships
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moshe
Clothes make the man, dude.- If your wardrobe is dated, you will be swimming against the current. And about the wimp advice- spot on. Ladies like a confident man- in charge kinda guy. Change your first name to Raul-
Stay away from lawyers, psychology and sociology majors- nothing but trouble for you.
It is the fact shw knows my views on God and religon and other issues.
You have picked the topic that is the kiss of death- that and politics. Talk about music, getting high, favorite beer, sports, anything but religion. Stop shooting yourself in the foot. -- and never, never mention JWs- only weird people discuss that religious group in public.
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d
I do not discuss heavy topics she only learned of my views becuase she asked me when se invited me to her church. I can and do talk about other stuff. So I can be flexible.
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d
I also have an up to date wardrobe and yes I do dress with the times.
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Glander
you have an unanswered email hanging out there...end of story. if you see her in person, be formally pleasant. if you ask her if she got your email you are a boob.
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Scott77
I think, love and the desire to get loved , dated or married is for everyone regardless of sex. Therefore, view her also as in need of that area of natural human feeling. She has to do her homework. one way is to demostrate that she is interested by responiding to your 'communication' The prevailing notion that he must have a job and income has been dispelled in this fragile economy. You may have a job and can loss today or tomorrow. Let her tell you if she is in also for search of mr. Right. Do not be taken advantage of . She can be a manipulator, evil or something else. Then why the focus is on you as if you are the one who should be digging alot? Look at the internet dating site, are all men looking for women? Or is that both? Even if you eventually win her as your mate, questions may come years later asking yourself why did you worked hard and harder than her to win her love? How about her ? We are living in a society where both mates are expected to earn income. If not, let her tell you what is her plans or something she will bring to the table?
Scott77
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ballistic
Just walk straight up to her and with a voice of Arnold Schwarzenegger The Terminator, say "You look like a healthy female of child-bearing age. Give me your clothes." Works every time. ;)
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Band on the Run
Everyone is suggesting that you act as if you are confident. A confident jerk always gets more dates. It is a sad commentary. After all personal stories, I still am attracted to confidence. Don't beg.
Where I lived almost everyone is willing to change their religion for a decent mate.
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Jomavrick
How about a clevor pickup line to show your a worldly player. "How much does a Polar Bear weigh? Enough to break the ice - Hi I'm D"
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d
You ar right I have to be confident.But I always try to take a girls feelings into consideration. To me that is very hard.
