by d 76 Replies latest social relationships
Moshe,
Someone stepped on your soul and stomped on it. I would run like hell from you if you made your views public. Run. Flee. Panic. Get away.
There are nice, decent men and women. Both face the human condition.
I assume that the other person is decent unless I have grounds to think otherwise. Hopefully, your view of women is a rage fantasy and not acted upon in real life.
They are only women, not demons or Satans.
BOTR- sour grapes from you, again? why not share with us how successful you are in the dating/man game? Where is the picture of your happy family? You fancy yourself a great lawyer- perhaps you analyze men until you do discover their hidden faults- it's there someplace, I know he is hiding something-- I'll catch him in a contradiction--
d- like I said-- laywer women are bad news, avoid them.
I was watched the entire Viking series on the History channel- it struck me how women had a different shopping list for a man/protector back then. I still believe women are wired for finding a protector- they just look elsewhere$$ for his ability to provide, not how he swings his sword.
BOTR-I would run like hell from you if you made your views public. Run. Flee. Panic. Get away.
My views and "Don Juan" experiences" ( wasblind, you made a good funny) are very tame compared to this fellow- Last time I checked he had plenty of women wanting his attentions- maybe clothes do make the man- the satin pajamas and velour robe must drive women wild.
The problems in dating are very often due to the woman's future expectations-
5th date, the guy says, " I don't want to get married right now"- Ok, fair enough, does the lady truthfully reveal, "well, I'm looking to get married ASAP and if you want to sleep with me, I need to see an engagement ring first"- nope, she won't do that, she is crafty. He is a blue dog Democrat who worked the phone banks with her , he drives a nice BMW, has an MBA, works on WallStreet (investment banking), owns his apt in a good neighborhood, NMNK (never married/no kids)-"Well,she thinks (analyzing) I can invest six months, it's better than no dates and the sex was good". Six months turns into a year. He is still avoiding the jewelry store- I've invested a year, I can't throw that away- surely six more months will get him in the mood ( sunk cost fallacy)- Finally, after 18 months of dating the big showdown arrives and she breaks it off. He still says, "I don't want to get, married right now" - He goes back into circulation and a few months later he starts dating another woman he met out jogging- He asks her to marry him six weeks later- he found the woman he can't live without- his forever love.
I don't know moshe, you make it sound more complicated than it is. Or is that how is is in your neighbour hood? It just sounds like dating is somehow awkward and carried out by people who don't know eachother.
I lived in a major city back then- that does make it harder. Lots of players. There are so many people in the dating pool, it is easy to think someone more compatible will show up next weekend.- You live in the UK?- what is dating like there?- I hear that people won't even move 20 miles to a new city for a job in the UK ( maybe 2009-2010 recession changed that)-- they want to stay in their neighborhood.
I'm done with this topic-- let some other guy, like Minimus, expound upon the secrets of, "how to pick up a woman and get to first base with her"
What is "first base" these days?
What is "first base" these days?
The female initiation of the french kiss.
Back on the topic - I generally find it best to only "confront" women that I DONT like - and do the cowboy grin and shy mumble with the girls I do like.
