any woman that had to give up 1/2 of a 401K in a divorce is for certain, pissed off. - you have my condolences.- you can make it up in the next marriage.
Moshe, I already did, I married a wonderful guy. He is very financially responsible, which is important to me. My first husband was irresponsible with money, and couldn't keep a job. I lost count of how many jobs he had had, it was over fifty thoughthough. I don't care about being wealthy, just about security. I met my current husband while still in high school, but I wouldn't date him because he wasn't a dub. So we reconnected after thirty years (very romantic, we went to classmates.com within two days of each other) He was driving a ten year old Ford Taurus at the time, which was a plus for me, he could have had a flashy New car, but didn't want it. I didn't want a sugar daddy, I could support myself, just one that doesn't make stupid money decisions. We have been happily married for 13 years.
I am sorry if you were offended about the misogynist label, but many of the things you say about women come accross that way. Not all single moms want or need a sugar daddy. Keep in mind that for every woman with children looking for a match, there is a father who may or may not pay support and may or may not be helping to raise his kids, and many second wives contribute to the household income so dad can afford to pay child support. My husband was a single dad when we got married, he had sole custody (mine were grown), so I did the step mom thing, which I didn't mind.
