Good idea, it will amaze the outsiders.
Ladies attending a JC, be prepared for an Inquisition.
by Hecce 67 Replies latest members adult
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Hecce
I was reading at the Spanish Forum about the experiences of two sisters that went thru the experience of a JC in order to get out of their marriages, the cases were isolated and in both instances the elders went into very detailed and intimate information about their "sins". One of them was even asked if she had depilated herself prior to the encounter.
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Saename
Hecce - One of them was even asked if she had depilated herself prior to the encounter.
What the hell!? And I actually used to believe that those elders were good people anointed and empowered by the holy spirit to care for the 'flock'... Though I'm an atheist, I sometimes find myself wish that hell existed so that bad people—actual bad people, not non-believers—could learn a 'divine' lesson...
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punkofnice
Zeb is right. I know the UK charity enquiry will interact with ex-JWs. One guy I know has had them ring him. It's worth a punt.
In hind sight, if only I'd got a solicitor involved when the hounders chased me for an 'apostatacy(tm)' JC!
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Hecce
Subject related:
Sexy Details, Please
Jehovah’s Witnesses have very stringent rules about behavior between the opposite sex when dating, and when these rules are broken, you can be “reproved,” either publicly or privately, or outright disfellowshipped (excommunicated). In order to determine if you should be simply reproved or disfellowshipped, and to ensure you’re nice and repentant of any sexual contact, three elders will meet with you privately and ask you details about the encounter. They might ask if the man fondled your breasts or your vagina, if you fondled his penis, if you had oral sex or anal sex, if you changed positions during sex, if you were penetrated with the man’s fingers, if you had an orgasm and how many, and anything else they might think of. You’ll be expected to answer these questions in detail and if not, it will be assumed that you’re hiding something or not repentant of your sexual conduct, and you’ll be disfellowshipped.
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Hecce
Same source:
josiepicot February 7, 2015 at 10:37 pm
100% accurate. I was born into this cult and disfellowshipped at 17 for having sex with my boyfriend. I was grilled by 3 elders and amongst other incredibly personal questions was asked “did he put his penis into your vagina?” I was 17! I am now 50 and look back with utmost disgust… what perverted dirty old men! Revolting. Thank god i had the guts to know i would be better off out of it. I lost everyone and started anew and it wasn’t easy but i did it. I bring my children up to be FREEEEEEEE
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Chook
For a sister to subject herself to such a inquisition by men who get off on words like a teenage boy watching porn for the first time is horrendous. Any woman who suffers depression or self harm after such an encounter has to come to find solace in knowing that they WILL be accountable, don't wait on God for retribution refuse to answer or talk to these guys based on their WT views of sex.
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Hecce
Chook
Agree