My sister cut off all contact with me when I became severely ill. It had nothing to do with the Witnesses. Altho we talk now, we don't really talk. I cannot trust her. She moved to another state with her boyfriend. Throughout my illness, I was near death many times. No exaggeration. As the procedures became more intrusive and larger hospitals became involved, i kept hoping she would change her mind.
My regret is not searching her down and confronting her. Through the years I've wondered what was so evil about me that she could not stay in touch. Nothing. No birthday. No Christmas. I met other patients with similar problems. My pain was agonizing. Not seeing her out of fear diid save me pain. My mother never told me why. She acted as tho my sister's behavior was normal.
My sister is weird. Strangers were kinder. I am not aware of papal injunctions to abandon very ill sisters. Yes, I definitely would hunt her down. Hopefully, I would demand an explanation but maintain an elegant composure. One of the reasons I did not go was fear of losing my temper.
Words are stiff. They are open to misinterpretation. The problem is that now you may be stalking her. My brother also just ran away into a cult. I ran into him by accident on the NYC subway. Looking someone in the eye gives you information.
