We got DF'd/ Assoc. Press called

by ARoarer 87 Replies latest jw friends

  • NeonMadman
    NeonMadman

    I want to express that my thoughts are with you in this difficult time. I know how hard it is to go through what you're going through, though in the long run, there's no doubt in my mind that you'll all be better off out of the organization, especially since you have been freed from their mental bondage as well. My best wishes for the future to all of you!

    And, if you ever want to talk to a fellow ex-jw New Jerseyite, just holler!

    Tom

    "Gentlemen, he said, I don't need your organization, I've shined your shoes, I've moved your mountains and marked your cards. But Eden is burning"
    --Bob Dylan
  • DakotaRed
    DakotaRed

    My hats off to you and your courageous family. Imagine, being vicitimized many times over by a religion and when comfort and relief are sought, you are cast aside as if mere trash. I never thought it possible for the Watchtower to stoop so low, but they have proven themselves to be amongst the most ungody religion there is. Surely, they cannot any part of any organization God may use today, if they ever were.

    They may sit now and point out how they are being persecuted by all this, but it is not persecution, but devine retribution. By their line of reasoning, the Catholics would be the true church, as they have been receiving this treatment for far longer. But, deep in my heart, I believe that God does not work through any religion.

    I am delighted that you and your family have broken free of the Watchtower, yet I am sad that you have been so mistreated by them at the same time. Still, I am angry that they choose to mistreat goodhearted people so callously and still claim to be God's Channel of Communication. Hopefully, many will sit and take notice of their unchristian conduct and break free.

    My best to your entire family.

    If God's Spirit is filling a Kingdom Hall, how is it that Satan can manuever the ones within that Kingdom Hall at the same time?

  • Yerusalyim
    Yerusalyim

    My heart and prayers are with the Pandelo family.

    I take it you're NOT appealling.

    Did Dateline call?


    YERUSALYIM
    "Vanity! It's my favorite sin!"
    [Al Pacino as Satan, in "DEVIL'S ADVOCATE"]

  • Nathan Natas
    Nathan Natas

    Hugs to you, Mr. & Mrs. Pandelo.

    I wish you a bright and happy Mother's Day!

    PS - your Justin seems to be quite a piece of work - you must be proud of him!

  • puzzled
    puzzled

    ((((((((BARB))))))and family...

    I can only imagine the weight that must be off of you now.
    I hope someday I can feel that too.

    PLUMCRAZY

    "Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great." --Mark Twain
  • simplesally
    simplesally

    (((((((((Barbara)))))))))))))

    Now prepare yourself to be called evil, wicked and determined to live a God-dishonoring course. Prepare yourself to be slandered, sneered at and ignored. Try to soothe yourself when you recall they said that the elders try to work with these ones who have committed grave sins, that only after repeated attempts to try to provoke them to repentance are they df'd.....

    Its ALL bullshit! I went to sooooooo many meetings after being df'd and endured, but no more. I am not evil or wicked.

    And neither are you!

    Please remember that you are loved. Please remember that Jehovah loves the ones that skinned and thrown about like sheep with a shepherd. Please remember that Jesus said he would refresh us.

    Be mad at them, not at God.

  • ronin1
    ronin1

    Barbara:

    Thank you and your family for your courageous stand. Just remember that an organization made up of evil people DF'd you, not Jehovah.

    You and your family stood up for what was right and I firmly believe Jehovah knows and see this and has not abandoned you.

    Stay Strong.

    Ronin1

  • Angharad
    Angharad

    (((((((Barbara & family)))))))

    I really admire the courage you and your family have shown.

    Take care
    Angharad

  • Simon
    Simon

    (((Barbara))) !!!

    "Welcome to the rest of your life"

    I know it's rough right now but in a year or two you may look back on this as one of the best moments of your life - the day you officially became free.

    Well done for standing up for what is right - if there were more people like you then the WTS would not be in the mess they are inthe first place.

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    Dearest Barbara,

    I know how you feel! Three years ago, I left the Borg also, but I came away with no one. I decided that in order for me to become the healthy person I needed to become that my marriage had to go too. We were married twenty years, and he was an elder for fifteen of those twenty. I am part of WA, in fact, they saved my ass many times. Being part of that wonderful group of ladies has been one of God's blessings in my life and I can definitely say amen to your comment about God sending wonderful people into your life. He/She has done the same for me. For the most part my life has become so much better, I read and watch what I want to and am finally becoming a more well rounded balanced person. I still have alot of growing to do, but I am definitely feeling the freedom that leaving the Borg has given me! My prayers are with you and your family.

    Love your sis,

    Terri

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