I want to communicate better, and would appreciate your help. (page 10)

new hope and happiness

Sorry unethical and against forum rules. I think iam dyslestic. Anyway any attempt to make public private P.Ms public i find abhorent.

That is your right, new hope. I find lies about people to be abhorrent. We all have ethical decisions to make. I chose to warn Kate several times to stop lying about me, I *thought* the issue had been resolved via PM, but apparently it wasn't. I made the decision that, in order to defend myself against her libel, that was a step that needed to be taken, but not lightly. I warned her twice. I am fine with my decision.

You may, quite reasonably, disagree. That is your right and I support it fully. I am also comfortable with my decision.

*Edited to add* It doesn't appear to be against the posting guidelines at the bottom of the every JWN screen. However, invading privacy is, which Kate has attempted to do several times and is now sending me PMs with details that she thinks are mine.

I am now, having reviwed the guidelines, 100% fine with my decision.

new hope and happiness

Thanks for the Reply viv. But. do you not think you compromised your own ethical and moral standars by breaking forum rules?

new hope and happiness

Sorry viv i missed the last line of your post. You read forum guidlines and i respect your decision. Take care.

Viviane

Sorry viv i missed the last line of your post. You read forum guidlines and i respect your decision. Take care.

No problem. It honestly hadn't occurred to me to check the forum rules prior to that. Yes, it was an ethical decision and not one I made lightly.

Laika

Warning someone that you're about to do something unethical doesn't suddenly make it ethical, otherwise disfellowshipping would be ok.

cofty

Nobody can libel you in a PM to you about you.

new hope and happiness

Lalika, i meant to write accept not respect on the basis it wasnt breaking forum guidelines.

Viviane

Warning someone that you're about to do something unethical doesn't suddenly make it ethical, otherwise disfellowshipping would be ok.

Apples and oranges. Besides, as yet, since the PMs contained proof that Kate antagonized me on purpose and knew she was making stuff up and posting publicly, I fail to see where the ethical dilemma is.

Viviane

Nobody can libel you in a PM to you about you.

I know. She lied about me in posts on the forum, admitted she was making that stuff up in the PMs I posted and that she was antagonizing me. Reprehensible and shamefule behavior all while claiming to be the victim. All she had to do was honor my request to leave me alone. I broke no rules and provided evidence of her intent to antagonize while trying to fool everyone into thinking she was the one being hurt.

Also, as you can see, she sent me a PM with what she apparently and incorrectly thinks are details about my life that she has somehow figured out. I cannot begin to imagine a reason for doing the work that would take and sending it to be except as some form of threat. Of course, she's wrong on all of the details, but that's entirely besides the point.

OTOH, she could just be making stuff up again.

I want to communicate better, and would appreciate your help.

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