by Lost Diamond 63 Replies latest social family
Recently divorced - after 21 years (give or take). Was not happy in that relationship.
Currently am in love once again - with the most awesome young lady I have ever met (well... on the internet).
Will be able to meet her soon (face to face), when she comes here for a visit.
Kinda restores my 'faith' in the concept of 'love'.
Yes, the more I get to know this one, the more I am deeply in love with her. ahhhhhh...
...sorry - was dreaming again.
Regards,
Jim_TX
WOW! It's so nice to hear all your positive and happy responses! You are all so very blessed!
Mulan,
It's nice you were able to work out your problems...because you both had that love for each other and your children to want to iron things out. Help with the kitchen is a big help, especially when we work a full time job on the side!
It sounds like, according to your responses, to have a healthy and happy relationship you need trust, respect, and admiration. What if you didn't have that in your marriage....then what?
Connie,
You sound like you have a real sweetheart on your hands too. It sure helps out that he is seriously supportive about your JW past. Unless they've been in our shoes, it's usually very difficult for them to understand, but it sounds like your sweetie values you so much that he has even taken the time to do some research. How loving and thoughtful!
Jim_TX
You sweetie!!
LADY "C" and I are still on the Honeymoon, 14Years
So, what's it like having sex with the same person over so many years? Does it get better and better? And once you get into your 40's, 50's, and beyond when your looks really head south, is sex as enjoyable?
Just curious.
Oh, I hope so!!
Valid question though. I'm 36 so I don't know the answer. Maybe sex becomes an added benefit and not the focus of the relationship.
And once you get into your 40's, 50's, and beyond when your looks really head south, is sex as enjoyable?
If you are shallow, and if sex is all about 'looks', then you will find yourself very disatisfied in your older years.
If sex for you is NOT about looks, things will be fine no matter what age you are...keeping 'things' in working order is another thing entirely.
Beck
Yes! Totally happy. I am blessed with Big Tex and forever isn't long enough. Of course, there is that toilet paper debacle . . . .
Nina
So, what's it like having sex with the same person over so many years? Does it get better and better?
In a word - YESSSSSSSSSSSSS!
Of course, after Sabine's post, my head is so swollen I can't get it through the bedroom door let alone think straight. ;)
Thanks hun for all the beautiful things you wrote. You are my inspiration and motivation. Your sense of humor, style and thirst for experiencing and learning new things keeps me guessing, interested and hungry for more. Looking forward to the next 30 years. (is everyone gagging yet???? LOL)
Congratulations to Mulan and Dave - and everyone else who has found happiness in their marriage.
Mak
Edited by - Makena1 on 19 September 2002 23:11:30
Yes I am totally, happily In love with my hubby. We have been married for 10 1/2 years and still newly weds. I am truely blessed to have found him.
kkluv
Do I love my wife? Yes. Are we happy? Hell no! We struggle, ALOT. IT's all about commitment. Love doesn't get ya through the rough spots, commitment does. (and God knows I need to be committed).
We've talked about divorce, we're working on the problems instead. I just wish she'd clean and cook occasionally.
