Yerusalyim,
Note INTENTIONAL taking of INNOCENT human life. Were I as a soldier INTENTIONALLY trying to kill an innocent civilian it would be murder. Thanks goodness the US doesn't make it a habit of INTENTIONALLY targeting INNOCENT civilians.
First, understand I am not criticizing military action, or military service.
Secondly, how do we define intentional in this case? Surely the military stategists know that when you bomb a city, innocent children are likely to die. Even when they plan to minimize civilian casualties, there are circumstances when they know innocents are going to die. I believe the term for this is "acceptable losses".
The moral issue here then becomes not the intentional taking of innocent lives, but the benefits of taking those lives verus the costs of not taking them (i.e., not taking military action). Hence, the morality is still relative.
A few months ago, Israel sent a fighter plane and blew up a house. A terrorist whom they had been pursuing for years was living on the second floor of the house, and they knew that this was their only chance to get him, as he was extremely elusive.
Israel knew a family was living on the first floor, and knew the family was home. They knowingly fired at the house, knowing that the innocent family would be killed or seriously injured. I can't remember the number of deaths, but I do remember the photos of the seriously injured young children.
Israel considered this to be an acceptable cost, factoring in the number of lives that would be saved once the terrorist was killed.
Israel intentionally killed/injured that innocent family. Was their action absolutely morally wrong?
I will leave the discussions on rape and child abuse alone, as it distrubs me beyond measure. I am aware of some very sick scenarios which would not be appropriate for this forum.