Yes, I am, but no I am not....

by hillary_step 50 Replies latest jw friends

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Hillary-Step had changed? I had not noticed. Too busy tiptoeing through my garden, I guess.

    Yes, Hillary, I agree we need to be shaken out of our comfort zone occassionally. I read a great book on the balance between individuality and community by Jean Vanier. When a community is guarded too closely, we suppress individuality. Other voices deserve to be considered and heard. It is easy to see the damage that is done in the WTBTS because of this anomaly in human nature. A little harder to see those same traits in ourselves.

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Bridgette,

    So true, I've even seen your team colors demonstrated. No one's perfect, especially not me. Besides, I am sure that my perception was wrong. I usually am, why do I even comment?

    lol...There is enough base material in that statement for a psychotherapists conference.... Everybody loves you Bridgette, we love you for your strong opinions and your beautiful nature and even for that avatar that you stole from Tinkerbell's half-sister.

    Capture your dreams - HS

  • StinkyPantz
    StinkyPantz

    HS-

    I like you. . I don't care what all those other people say.

    lol...There is enough base material in that statement for a psychotherapists conference....

    I have issues, yes , don't laugh!!

    Everybody loves you Bridgette, we love you for your strong opinions and your beautiful nature

    Not true, but it made me smile. I like to be told I'm loved. . . aww. . ..

    and even for that avatar that you stole from Tinkerbell's half-sister.
    I'm proud to be linked with Tink; but can you see my new avatar? Made it myself. I refuse to use my pic anymore. I see people's demeanor change when they think someone is cute and I honestly believe they respect you less. Sure, you get more attention, but it's for your face, not your brain. Not the kind of attention I want anymore. . well maybe a little bit, I'm only human!
  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    SP,

    HS- I like you. . I don't care what all those other people say.

    See, we have much in common...

    I see people's demeanor change when they think someone is cute and I honestly believe they respect you less. Sure, you get more attention, but it's for your face, not your brain. Not the kind of attention I want anymore

    That is why I believe ones most honest critic is probably a blind, poor, hideous psychiatrist who only takes telephone clients. Of course you could always have a sex-change operation and find out what it is like being a man. Do you have any idea how difficult is is to find a wealthy nymphomaniac who owns a liquor store to pledge undying love to?

    HS

  • StinkyPantz
    StinkyPantz

    HS-

    See, we have much in common...

    Scary. .

    That is why I believe ones most honest critic is probably a blind, poor, hideous psychiatrist who only takes telephone clients.

    I have a sexy voice. . so this would still be a problem .

    Of course you could always have a sex-change operation and find out what it is like being a man. Do you have any idea how difficult is is to find a wealthy nymphomaniac who owns a liquor store to pledge undying love to?

    You're silly. Funny thing is. . well I often think I was supposed to be a man. I too want a wealthy nympho who owns a liquor store. . .

    ----

    Anyways, I don't think you needed to explain yourself in this thread, and I don't think you should deliberately change unless you think something's wrong with your current style. For those that take issue with you, they still will even though you've tried to explain yourself. For those of us to that love to hate you. . I mean hate to love you. . I mean. .well for the rest of us. . well we still feel the same too I think. I've found that trying to explain myself and my actions in a few short paragraphs is futile and doesn't do any justice to what I'm attempting to do.

  • AlanF
    AlanF

    : I see people's demeanor change when they think someone is cute and I honestly believe they respect you less. Sure, you get more attention, but it's for your face, not your brain.

    I know exactly what you mean, Bridget! I just hate it when men want my body more than my mind.

    Hey, you know I love ya!

    AlanF

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    jgnat,

    When a community is guarded too closely, we suppress individuality. Other voices deserve to be considered and heard. It is easy to see the damage that is done in the WTBTS because of this anomaly in human nature. A little harder to see those same traits in ourselves.

    What a powerful thought! One worth bringing to the board every so often, thank you.

    SP,

    I know exactly what you mean, Bridget! I just hate it when men want my body more than my mind.

    You think he jests? When I am near AlanF my knees begin to tremble and my heart sounds like a hillside of Grecian crickets.

    HS

  • AlanF
    AlanF

    : When I am near AlanF my knees begin to tremble and my heart sounds like a hillside of Grecian crickets.

    Sometimes I suffer from flatulence but I didn't know it was that bad.

    AlanF

  • StinkyPantz
    StinkyPantz

    HS & Alan-

    I have had a bad couple of days. .so I am using my last post to thank you two for making me smile just now . Thanks! Muah!!

  • teejay
    teejay

    Interesting post, Brother Step. I know that I am mentally challenged (as you have so often pointed out) but let?s see how far off I am in distilling the kernels of truth from your initial post:

    1. It?s not good to insist on looking at something from only one single point of view.

    2. When a bunch of people begin to agree on stuff, over time they tend to develop a ?we are right and everybody else is wrong? mentality.

    3. The said ?we are right? mentality constricts the flow of constructive criticism and dialog within the group, inhibiting its growth.

    4. Views of the group come to be held up as ?truth? and all opposing views are (or come to be) seen as ?untruth.?

    5. People in said group fear speaking out against the inherent groupthink for fear of reprisals, up to and including ejection from the group.

    6. Many of these aspects of groupthink occur at the Kingdom Hall.

    7. It would be sad if, after coming to see the counterproductive nature of these phenomena, one fell into repeating them over and over again.

    8. No group, even the dreaded WTS, is totally void of some good although it may require a fair and objective search(er) to find / admit it.

    9. No matter how adamantly we think we?re right, we could still be wrong.

    10. In view of Number 9, it?s sometimes a good idea -- worth our while, even -- to try to see the other person?s viewpoint.

    11. Sweeping generalizations are generally untrue.

    12. Despite what some of your friends think, you haven?t gone cuckoo.

    Am I in the ballpark?

    Those are some quite profound ? I must say downright radical ? ideas you got going there, Brother Step. I dare say that with the possible exception of Number 12, these maxims are pretty much beyond reasonable dispute. Cheers.

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