Wives Should Provide Sex On Demand - Dr. Laura

by Mindchild 101 Replies latest jw friends

  • Special K
    Special K

    Hey ...

    Interesting that Dr. Laura's last name is .. Sch..LESS..inger..

    and that her boyfriend or husbands last name is ... "Ballance"...

    I think that is what it's all about "Balance".. in a sexual relationship..

    and also.. what is normal for one couple in this area.. is not always what is normal for another couple in this particular area of their relationship... some people are regular bunnies and some are turtles...but either can be very happy in their relationship.

    So. does this makes turtles less happy than bunnies.... NOT.

    sincerely

    special k

  • patio34
    patio34

    I just finished reading a book The Princess by Jean Sassoon about being a princess in Saudi Arabia: There the men do have sex on demand; and they can even have their wives executed among other atrocities: The so called Dr: Laura belongs in a culture such as Saudi Arabia has; imo:

    Pat

  • mouthy
    mouthy

    Gumby...You were not listening to the elders ...There will BE NO Sex ...In Heaven Oh I forgot -you said you wasnt going there didnt you? Sorry Bud even though they told me I am going to be young & beautiful ( that would be like turning the water into a wine)I am hoping to ascend!!!!Anyway I would find peirced nipples distracting

  • Yerusalyim
    Yerusalyim

    Well, I'll be curious as to what the book actually says when it comes out...however...in an ideal relationship mutually meeting one another's needs would happen naturally.

  • Blueblades
    Blueblades

    Dr.Laura does not seem to understand that in love there are no demands on each other.

    Blueblades

  • Xena
    Xena

    While I don't agree with Dr. Laura I do feel like some women use sex as a tool to keep men in their place. Like Shiela I have heard women brag about the fact that they don't like/want or need sex anymore and how long they have made their husbands do without...then they wonder why they stray. If you love someone you want them to be happy and fulfilled...I don't advocate giving it up when you are ill or tired or have had a bad day...and one would hope a loving husband would understand and not push at these times....but if opportunity arises and you push him away....then you are damaging your relationship in my opinion. You keep killing the natural affection and pretty soon the love dies and the eye starts to wander.

    Just my 2 cents

  • ballistic
    ballistic

    I am a single person. But I would like to think that there was a meeting of minds within a relationship. I know of people who have found partners and "everything" is not right. The grass is greener and all that.

    It makes one wonder, am I better off as I am. Is there anyone here who can stand up and say, I have a truly wonderful relationship, respect, understanding, plus sex and everything, and am high on it?

    Come on, tell me I'm missing something.

  • ashitaka
    ashitaka
    It makes one wonder, am I better off as I am. Is there anyone here who can stand up and say, I have a truly wonderful relationship, respect, understanding, plus sex and everything, and am high on it?

    Right here, man.

    My wife and I met each other, and the connection was instant. We have a profound love and respect for each other, as well as a healthy amount of lust. We sacrifice for each other, and have a ridiculous sex life. There's nary a day without play.

    Also, we are linked to each other in a way that's almost spiritual. I don't know why, but we can't go without each other. We love each other's company. We talk all of the time.

    I think the hard times determine the relationship, and if it survives through tragedy and temptation, it makes the couple stronger.

    We'll have been married 5 years 20 days from now, and we were a teenage marriage.

    A relationship worth it, and long as it's not forced. I think that great relationships spring up without expecting it, and legendary relationships come only from years of unselfish love and sacrifice.

    My Grandmother and Grandfather's relationship was like that, and they were married 47 years until my Grandmom passed away.

    It's all be worth for my wife and I.

    ash

  • ballistic
    ballistic

    Hmmm interesting.

  • SheilaM
    SheilaM

    Thunder your post was beautiful and to all others HE MEANS EVERY WORD OF IT

    Xena: You put that beautifully and how I wanted to express myself, but after a day at a writer's conference I was not very articulate. That is EXACTLY how I feel...

    Beryl: I am sorry that your relationship is not a healthy one and sounds downright abusive, but that doesn NOT mean what Thunder says is wrong. If you can't talk and express yourself without fear then you need to LEAVE. You deserve better.

    Is there a husband around who doesn't expect his WIFE to go to work and earn money as well? How about all the housework that we (usually) alone must do.

    Thunder works as a writer and his business and DOES NOT EXPECT ME TO WORK so I can go to school. He also worked three jobs so I could raise our children I didn't work until Ant was 5.

    He also spent all day cleaning house while I was at my writers conference and he took care of me for TWO years when I was very ill, he cooked, cleaned and did everything for me. In fact he cooks most of the time.

    But I in turn worked three jobs to help out when I needed to, I took care of him when he was ill. It is all about mutual respect.

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