Beryl: I am sorry that your relationship is not a healthy one and sounds downright abusive, but that doesn NOT mean what Thunder says is wrong. If you can't talk and express yourself without fear then you need to LEAVE. You deserve better.Oh, no, sweetie. Tim is beautiful. It was the two exes who were abusive. Tim treats me like gold. I guess I was unfair when I stated most men expect their wives to work. My two husbands didnt want to work; the first one rarely did, in fact. Content to let me work outside the home, work inside the home, do all the child raising, and provide great sex on demand. My daughter stated, quite accurately: "The first best thing that ever happened to you was my father leaving you. The second best thing that ever happened to you was Alan leaving you." I would have to agree. It's all okay now, because.... Every mistep I took in my life has led me here, with Tim. I'm content. He's not perfect, but he's loving, respectful, caring, supportive. It's all new to me.... Now, about commitment. We can not right now be married, but that does not mean we are not fully committed to one another. Hell, I cheated on the first husband a number of times. Had cyber affairs on the second husband and no, it doesn't make me a terrible person (a terrible wife, yes, but person, NO.). I would NEVER EVER EVER cheat on Tim. Not because of having a ring (which I don't); because he loves me and treats me beautifully. I am content. He's allowing me to blossom. He has given me the first non-abusive environment in my life. Honestly. Even living with myself alone was an abusive environment because I actively did things to hurt myself. I no longer have to do any of that. Because of his love for and acceptance of me, I am learning to love myself. it's really kind of fun.... But no ring. Not yet. And it's okay. If Jehovah wants to off me because I am in the first non-abusive relationship of my life, and happy as well, fine. (Got kind of off topic here, sorry.) It's precisely because Tim would never demand sex that I willingly and completely give myself to him whenever he wants. An important side note: Being a doormat is no guarantee of keeping a man. Both husbands left ME. Giving them sex on demand does not mean they will love and honor you. Or stay with you.
Wives Should Provide Sex On Demand - Dr. Laura
by Mindchild 101 Replies latest jw friends
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berylblue
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SheilaM
An important side note: Being a doormat is no guarantee of keeping a man. Both husbands left ME. Giving them sex on demand does not mean they will love and honor you. Or stay with you.
Beryl: YOU totally missed Thunder and Xena's point.
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stillajwexelder
just finished reading a book The Princess by Jean Sassoon about being a princess in Saudi Arabia: There the men do have sex on demand; and they can even have their wives executed among other atrocities:
I think there are three books in this series by Jean Sasoon - one was called Daughters of Arabia -- forgotten the first ones title but all three are well worth a read and all three books confirm----- in Saudi Arabia: There the men do have sex on demand; and they can even have their wives executed among other atrocities: Saddam and his sons also in Iraq had sex on demand with any woman they wanted -- that is why we went to war and why it was worth going to war
We have a lot to be grateful for -- as on other threads I have contributed to -- women are wonderfull --there to be worshipped in my opinion -- the exact opposite of what happens in Saudi Arabia and Taliban controoled Afghanistan
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little witch
So "DR" laura thinks women should give sex on demand, huh?
Well, perhaps she is trying to explain those naughty pictures of herself, "My man insisted I pose, and I had to oblige, surely you understand it was the morally correct thing to do"?
LOL.
Why oh why do extremist get the attention of the media? I guess the squeaky wheel gets the grease. The woman is an idiot.
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LeslieV
Personally I only listen once in awhile to Dr. Laura so that I can yell at the radio. I personally feel that sometimes she does ok..but at times she is harmful to the callers.
Leslie
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SheilaM
explain those naughty pictures of herself,
I do find it bizarre that the issue is with Dr. Laura posing nude and not with the betrayl of someone she was once involved in. Say for instance Thunder and I married at 19 (as we did)but we divorced. Then I years later come out of the woodwork with the pictures I had taken of him early in our marriage.
I believe the issue then is not with HIM POSING regardless whether he in the meantime had become a freaking preacher or a porn star. But one of me betraying a personal boundary of someone I once loved. BUT LW as you know I think a litte different than most.
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Valis
become a freaking preacher or a porn star.
hey now! Those aren't mutually exclusive you know...*LOL*
BUT LW as you know I think a litte different than most
man I could have a field day with that one! *LOL*
Sincerely,
District Overbeer
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frenchbabyface
I was about to post something silly again but ... NAaaaa ... I'm gonna hold it !!!
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talesin
Well ... those guys are pretty handicapped they need a hand when we just need a finger *...
fbf: that's the best one I heard all week!!
sheilam
I do find it bizarre that the issue is with Dr. Laura posing nude and not with the betrayl of someone she was once involved in.
The issue I have with Dr. Laura (and I think many do) is that she is very judgmental and rude to people (my dad used to listen to her on road trips, I had no choice), especially if they are not "MARRIED" or towing the absolute perfect little "religious stereotype" of what SHE considers "MORALS".
She is so MEAN to people, very little compassion or kindness whatsoever, and condemns them in no uncertain terms and using the type of name-calling that would get me thrown off this forum.
She is the proverbial "glass-house dweller" throwing stones. Therefore, when the public sees that she wasn't always the "Perfect Patty", they scorn her for being so judgmental of people now. What a hypocrite (imho) she is!
Maybe her ex just wanted to 'bring her down a peg'. It was mean of him, and not the type of thing I would do myself.
Guess she got her 'KHARMIC' justice. He certainly 'did unto her' what she does to others, which is put them down and shame them in public.
tal
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SheilaM
Tale: That I undestand but I do think that they should also in turn JUDGE the person that would betray someone.
Valis: Tee Hee I bet LOL
